It actually depends on every individual, some people can easily grasp the idea of what you're trying to imply with your indirect words, but others need more explanation in order to understand what you really mean. It's up to you to size up the person you are dealing with. Too much words or explanation doesn't necessarily mean that you have clearly and understandably conveyed what you really mean, it depends on one's perception. Some have high IQ , some have low level of understanding, some are very understanding and considerate, some are just too hard-headed to get your point. Being straight forward is good but sometimes it fails. How you convey or deliver the right messages across the receiver or listener depends on your judgement of the person you are dealing with. Communication is a two way process one has to talk comprehensibly and the other should listen carefully and try to decipher the words being conveyed but it involves communication skills as well as behavioral study of every individual.

Good to see you back Peggy!

For me action speaks louder than words. There are times that words are not necessary anymore, if one understands what silence implies then no need for an explanation. If one wants to explain and tell you honestly the reason why he or she's doing such thing, well and good to hear the truth. Sometimes it feels bad to reject someone blatantly without consideration of another's feelings. Some obvious things don't need to be told already, one can do it in a subtle way so as not to insult or hurt someone's feelings directly. It's shameful or insulting to hear someone reject you especially in an inconsiderate manner, but some delivers the rejection in a very nice way that one could accept it without feeling hurt or insulted.

Not much of a difference. Everywhere in the world may it be in person or online , both can be fake or real, you'll never know really.

Thinking, I'm late for work again the culprit... FORUM... why Can't I just stay away from you, what hold have you got over me? gotta get my *** moving, I get salary deduction for being late because of you bye for now......see you later

Wow, this is a very nice poem:) well chosen words to describe your feelings, so deep and full of emotions. I hope your jaded smile will turn to a real smile someday when you find what you're seeking for. Goodluck jadedsmyle4u!

Sceptical, maybe we should just sing this song together and keep on dreaming, indeed we can just imagine as there is no complications


I Should Be So Lucky"

[1a:]
In my imagination
There is no complication
I dream about you all the time
In my mind a celebration
The sweetest of sensation
Thinking you could be mine

[1b:]
In my imagination
There is no hesitation
We walk together hand in hand
I'm dreaming
You fell in love with me
Like I'm in love with you
But dreaming's all I do
If only they'd come true

[CHORUS:]
I should be so lucky
Lucky lucky lucky
I should be so lucky in love
I should be so lucky
Lucky lucky lucky
I should be so lucky in love

[2a:]
It's a crazy situation
You always keep me waiting
Because its only make believe
And I would come a-running
To give you all my loving
If one day you would notice me

[2b:]
My heart is close to breaking
And I can't go on faking
The fantasy that you'll be mine
I'm dreaming
That you're in love with me
Like I'm in love with you
But dreaming's all I do
If only they'd come true

[CHORUS:]

[BRIDGE:]
I should be so lucky (so lucky, so lucky)
I should be so lucky
I, I, (I, I)
I should be so lucky (so lucky, so lucky)
I should be so lucky
I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I, I

[1b:]

[CHORUS:]
[repeat & fade]

walk the talk kind of guy? they are rare species nowadays men usually have sweet tongues, they love to use flowery words to lure women, I'm not saying all are, okay? There may be few existing try to look for the nearly extinct specy and trust your instincts, usually women have this gut instinct and if you feel something uncomfortable, trust your instincts... Run as fast as you can!!! kidding aside, we all have a gift of discernment, give chance to others, they are not all the same... Let them prove their worth and only then you will know .....and maybe you can sing the . .... I GOT LUCKY!

I don't really have an ideal guy or a specific type, I just let my heart feel. The heart and mind will know when the right one comes along. Love or attraction just happens unexpectedly most of the time, so even if you try to look for an ideal person it would be difficult to find the one that would match your requirements as every individual have differences, we all have flaws and not perfect .

As the saying goes,"once bitten, twice shy". Men and women both have instinct reaction to withdraw or shy away from things that have caused them the pain. Being cautious is normal for people who had been hurt from the past and doesn't want to get hurt or fooled again. It would take some time to convince someone to believe that your feelings is real, you gotta work on building trust for someone to believe and fall in love again.

I prefer horror, comedy love story and martial arts movies. But ideal for a date would be something that you both like would definitely enjoy. Some guys I think likes horror movies thinking that the girl will move closer to him when scared and he'll have a chance to hold the girl but he'll be disappointed when the girl likes horror and doesn't get scared

Great to know that you had an exhausting work today meaning you had a productive and fulfilling day:) hard work always have results cheers to a good life and for the strength to survive all the challenges in life that calls for a reward , have a great weekend Pisces

oooh actually these are very lucky animals they are very intelligent, so amazing they are fast learners they can keep up with the cruelty of the world they know how to hit hard also

Oh thank God Pisces for a good weather today, it didn't rain during our volleyball game and we were able to enjoy the rest of the evening in an open terrace restaurant and had coffee afterwards in a sea side café life is good

Thinking of our volleyball game in just a few minutes....got to get moving... This forum is holding me back see you later alligator!!!

nice post.....keep it coming....good read!

There's no such thing as perfect relationship for every individual have differences . But when two people are working things out together , with the acceptance of their imperfections then they are truly in love with the willingness towards near perfection.

I knew it!!!

Oooh lucky courier boy, stupid CEO he doesn't know his employee.