Ok, how does that seem strange to you? It's fun. Try it sometime.

Ok, I'm just gonna say it...most people are shallow. Few people ever become truly happy because they look too much at the outer appearance or material realm.

Why thank you, Indigo I'll do that.

I agree. You may want others to be happy, but your happiness matters, too.

By the way, I'm not suggesting anything about him dating a virgin...where did I say that?

Wild, I think your profile is straight to the point. But you might want to edit the place where it asks if you have kids. I know you state it in your profile text, but someone who skims through it like they're reading your resume may not know that and become disappointed if that's not what they want. You seem like a sharp guy, and being clean shaven makes you appear like you take care of yourself well.

Heh, I doubt all nuns are virgins...and he could date a virgin. What's wrong with that?

Well, they're out there, my friend.

I've been able to talk to a great deal of ladies here, but I wonder if anyone, especially the ladies have any comments or suggestions about my profile. Thanks

Dude, I totally understand that, too. If you don't see their expression and their emotion, then you can't see if it's even genuine. In person is the best when talking with women.

Wow, I didn't know all the circumstances. I hope that you find a lady who has no prior attachments. That seems to be the type of lady you need, since your recent ex-girlfriend was obviously still way to attached to her ex-husband.

Jboy, I can see what you mean. In my experience, even recently, I've talked with many women on phone chat services and through this site. Both ways seem to be a bit hasty as you stated. I know it's unusual, but even at my age I've never really had experience in the dating world, and haven't really socialized with women much. It does seem that if I meet a woman at a club, store, at work or some other place in person that it takes so much longer to really get to know them...which I guess is normal considering their schedule, family life, etc. outside of where they met me. But if I meet her on a chat or dating service, typically we talk just about everyday and get to know way more about each other in about a week than I ever have when meeting a woman in person. It feels rather strange why it's not the other way around.

Hmm, I'm curious, did you specifically mention she and her ex-husband's situation when giving advice or help, or mention any other men period? I've learned the hard way about that. If I mention past women that I was interested in it seems to make a woman feel strange, like she is being compared to another. Also, she may try to compare you with her past relationships and find an excuse to get rid of you if she doesn't want to deal with habits or anything about you for that matter. That was a mouthful...and I hope it makes sense, lol.

Anyway, I believe that when being involved with a woman make it about you and her...no third party (of course the children situation is a bit different). But I mean just focus on how you can make her happy with you. But also, why did you both break up?

I really hope this will not continue to happen to you. You sound like a great man that truly cares about his woman being happy, and I believe you will make a woman very happy someday with that kind of heart. Stay true to who you are.

It's easier for you ladies to tap into that realm, though.

Yes Ma'am, I have experienced that. But what about the times in my experience when I've talked with a woman on a phone chat line and she and I get along great together, but when I see her...she's hideous? I don't like to be rude about it, but I could not see myself waking up everyday the rest of my life with some women I've met and/or talked to, even though they may have a heart of gold. Not only that, but they say I'm the cutest thing they've ever seen, and then comes guilt about trying to let em down easy, etc.

Thank you, sister. I actually found someone local from this site that is a dear believer with whom I'm interested in pursuing friendship and more. I may visit from time to time. I wish you all the best and many blessings.

Much grace to you all.

Assurance that crying at stressful times is not weird. It's human and normal...and relieves a lot of stress.

So, are you here for the truth or to argue? Don't waste our time if you want to argue.

I agree with Winx, you're not ugly.

Tell him, "Don't let the door hit ya where the good Lord split ya".