Thank you many times, Christina. Well the fact remains that I am a good man and would have been good to her. But she lost out more than she could ever imagine.

Thanks for being such a sweetheart.

A better question...when is it too soon to ask a girl out on a date? Isn't it better and more comfortable for a woman to develop a friendship with a man she just met before going on a date? Please lemme know. Thanks.

Nah, you're not a hippo, girl. A lady of your body type is voluptuous, and I like that! Thick girls are nice.

Well, I'll tell you one thing that happened recently that has yet again hindered me from having a date. A girl from this site (who is no longer here) allowed me to call her, which is nice that she felt comfortable with me. When I called her she sounded like she was happy to hear from me, yet shy and unsure what to say. After she told me that she would be quite busy with work and helping her parents move into a new house, I understood and asked her when would be best for us to talk again? She said she was unsure, so I let her do her thing for about 2 weeks. In that time, I thought about her and how she may have been doing. I waited the 2 weeks and called her back. Yet again, she said she was sooo busy and didn't know when we could talk and/or hang out. And she had even told me that she thought I had given up on her. Nope, I didn't...because I was genuinely interested in her. And she even said it was cool to have a friendship and see where it goes. She agreed to that.

Long story short...I call her back last night to see how she was doing since she had gotten tonsilitis (gross). At first I think I surprised her that I called...then she said (I'll paraphrase here), "I'll be completely honest with you...if you think that a relationship can come out of this, I'm not really interested. I'm actually still in love with my ex-boyfriend, whom I've been dating."

Boy, did I want to call her all sorts of bad things...but I told her that I will lose her number and go my separate way...to which she sounded rather surprised again and we said goodbye.

Wouldn't it have been great if she had told me upfront about her dating her ex so that I would not have wasted my time and energy on the parasite that she is?

That's cute.

Wow, that's hilarious. That made my granddad laugh his head off!

Yes, I've heard that one before, and I still laugh at it

Jeez, girl...you ARE animalistic

Faithful, I understand. I couldn't rest my mind last night after I found out a girl from this site that I was interested in was still dating her ex-boyfriend, even after she apparently was interested in pursuing something with me...rude and nerve-wracking. But as my grandmother said..."Good riddance"

You're quite welcome. You'll do fine. Just shower, dress in your nicest clothing, don't be late, and relax and answer questions as straight forward as you can...and you'll be ok

Faithful, thank you. I hope your day turns out to be a wondeful day, too.

Romeo, I wish you the best as well in your search. It took me going to over 30 places to find a part-time minimum wage job, but once I found that job it was easier to find something better, too. Keep pressin on, man.

Wow, lol. I like that.

As long as you stay away from the bars with her being pregnant, it shouldn't be a problem what you both do when you go out.

I used to go on that site called webdate...and the people were so serious with no sense of humor that I ran into lots of those kinds of people. "Tough" guys show their foolishenss quite a bit and say things that down everyone else, even if no one was talking to them in the first place.

I agree, Ladylid.

Unless I've experienced having kids of my own, I don't think the responsibility of raising someone else's kids and trying to have a romantic relationship is a good idea, yet.

It sounds like you are both tired of each other and using an excuse to see other people. If you think it's love that you share, then you wouldn't be going to others to meet your needs.

Well, if she's expectin me to do the job of bein a daddy, then I should have a say so in that issue.

I sure feel sorry for the man in the wheelchair, but not for the wife. Seems to me that she loves herself more than her own husband.

Since I've never had a relationship, I don't want that kind of responsibility. If they are not my kids, I don't want to take care of them. I've seen enough little brats as it is that don't get their azzes whooped when they need it. Therefore, if I think that her kids need a good butt-whoppin and she doesn't approve, then I don't see how we could agree on much else. Furthermore, I need experience with a woman alone...not with kids.

By the way, there are plenty of women out there lookin for a sucker to be a "daddy" for their munchkins. I don't play that. And I'm not gonna put myself in the midst of baby-daddy/momma drama.