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Purpose ?
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I think my purpose was to show my first husband what love and family are and to have my son and daughter who are going to do great things. Ok, that part is accomplished, so whats next? A further purpose if you will. Mine.. back to school soon, learn and make new friends. Kill 2 birds with one stone.. NOT that I actually want to kill any birds 
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When I had a Chevy, I wished for a Ford
Now I wish I had my Chevy back!!! 
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Purpose ?
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Your purpose is what YOU choose it to be, and how possible it is is for you to make that dream come true, but never what THEY tell you your purpose is. You mean the Jehovah's witnesses were wrong!! 
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Purpose ?
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Years ago this came to mind after my car was destroyed by a Semi. Couldn't even tell what kind of a car it was, But I climbed out and walked away. Without even one scratch. Like.... Why? is there something I am suppose to accomplish before I go. Most people that I speak to believe "things happen for a reason" They spend their whole lives trying to figure out "the reasons" why the life changing catastrophes happened. I believe "things just happen" buddhists say "If you have no expectations, you will never be disappointed".... I try and live my life this way Hope it helps 
I don't think anyone can live without expectations. |
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Purpose ?
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Years ago this came to mind after my car was destroyed by a Semi. Couldn't even tell what kind of a car it was, But I climbed out and walked away. Without even one scratch. Like.... Why? is there something I am suppose to accomplish before I go. We all have a purpose for being here. If not? what is the point of all this!Sometimes I think we never realy know untill we are gone.And then the world and family/friends tell our story! J.M.O. 
Or, as long as we have a purpose or goal to strive for.. our life has a meaning. I think I am at my best when actually learning something new. |
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Purpose ?
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I'm not talking Bible here but... Do you think each person was put on Earth for a distinct purpose? Have you wondered what your "Purpose is" or do you think you know what your purpose is? How do we know? I know my purpose,A trait that started from my Great grand parent,and on down the line.We give what we can, to help others, to share our ears to listen,To use our voice with conviction, and trust others will listen, one good deed, is contagious, and passed on.Quite simple.... the power of love to love one another. So far.. my purpose seems to be.. to fix things for everyone. Electrical problems, plumbing problems, roof leaks and so on.. and I get a call. OMG.. I have become Bob the Builder 
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Purpose ?
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Years ago this came to mind after my car was destroyed by a Semi.
Couldn't even tell what kind of a car it was, But I climbed out and walked away. Without even one scratch. Like.... Why? is there something I am suppose to accomplish before I go. |
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Purpose ?
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I'm not talking Bible here but...
Do you think each person was put on Earth for a distinct purpose? Have you wondered what your "Purpose is" or do you think you know what your purpose is? How do we know? |
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Viagra makes me sleep like a baby.
Not so much because of the viagra I guess, More from the three hour workout. 
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Too boring for most?!
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I guess my question was well answered.
By a few who understood the question and really cared to input some useful thought. Thanks to those that came for more than just a battle. 
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Constant negative threads...
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I am so confused...
A Thread to wine about others that wine. If everyone spoke exactly the same, It would really be a dull world. If we all lived in a perfect world.. There would only be Half as much to discuss.. so there goes half of the forums. No.. wait, If it were a perfect world no one would be alone and there wouldn't be a need for singles sites
Myself, I don't post in many threads because of the topic. is there a rule that says we have to reply to or even read every thread? |
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Too boring for most?!
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Oh but you left out the little tidbit about you having 7 kids. And you left out the tidbit that they are all grown and on their own, and it wouldn't have been 7 if it were not for a set of triplets in the mix. But on the other hand, this thread wasn't started to tell my entire life story, that is what emails and getting to know each other is for. And your point was??? This thread may not have been started to tell your entire life story, but you put it out there and left out a big piece of info. You state you don't want anymore children...but yet you leave out the fact that you have 7? This is no where mentioned on your profile. My point is that you self proclaim to be this great catch, but you leave out any info that doesn't benefit you in your shining light of self promotion. You are also assuming that others will find you to be such a catch. I would say you having 7 kids is a big deal whether they are grown or not. So perhaps when you fluff yourself up for things you think are the reasons why you are so boring and that's why women don't flock to you, perhaps it's the reasons you don't list. I also won't wear white socks, I don't get drunk and beat a woman, I eat with either hand, want the rest of my details.. She is welcome to email earnestly. What a nutjob. again.. that is what emails are for. Every bit of ones life does not go into a forum, try maybe reading a profile. Is this really the best you can come up with to try to pick at me
You think I should put my entire life story in a forum, If everyone did that, no one would hook up. But to lie to hook up is wrong. so show me where I have lied. Off to work, Later y"all |
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Too boring for most?!
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Personally, im weary of any guy who promotes his own sincerity. If he doesn't, who will? Who knows him better than he does? A guy who promotes the fact hes down to earth, usually, isnt,imo. Most of the sincere men i know dont brag about it at all,they just r. Strange, Most people (not just guys) online.. pump out so much BS that they don't even know who they really are any more. Honestly.. how many have you seen here that run off into a dream relationship with someone they met online (and in the RW) just to find out it was all a front, and soon fell apart!? Being honest avoids most of this. A lot of what is in most profiles is BS.. sorry.. I don't have a bs divining rod
But you are right, people want to believe the BS fantasy, and burned so often that we don't believe the honest ones. Like the song * You give love a bad name* sort of situation. Well im glad i dont fall into the "most" category......i have never BS on a profile of mine,i have also never posted a thread to complain about my own choices of past men. I wasnt sure about wat u said about being right? that wasnt wat i said...if i think someone is BS-ing about themselves or their lives, i usually find out pretty quickly before i get too attached. I dont disbelieve honest ppl, i just have red flags appear when a man complains publicly about how MOST women dont want an honest guy and claim to be 1..... Best of luck to you. If you have found a good man you have done well. But be real and read the forums.. story tells itself over and over. But honestly, you don't know the first thing about me,, so how sweet that you think you know me so well
You are doing exactly what I have described.. judging |
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Christmas vs Holiday
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Just one more thought, Christmas *CHRIST-MAS* IS A RELIGIOUS HOLIDAY.. So why do most that claim not to be religious celebrate it??  True!! and Sears, Target, K-mart..................
The spammers love this holiday! I can now hit the delete button blind folded. |
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Too boring for most?!
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Well, in my experience, it's actually worse than that. From what I've seen, 99% of the women want a guy who is docile, easily led, easily domesticated, and who has no thought processes, creativity, or self-concept whatsoever. In other words, they want a farm animal. Probably a goat, although I suppose there are several other animals who would suffice for this purpose. If/when I do run across a woman who actually claims she wants a guy with some intelligence, creativity, and talent, she's either 90, deranged, or otherwise ineligible. Or being completely dishonest about what it is she really wants. I mean, I've written three books, I'm in reasonably good shape, I've been told I'm "easy on the eyes" by a few here, and yet I've generated zero interest in three years. Why is that? I have to assume it's because women don't want a thinker, they want a drinker. Which I will never be.... 
You eliminate a large percentage of women because they have children. Which is not wrong, it is good that you do that if that's not something you want. I'm just saying that there are more women that would be interested if not for that fact. I had to laugh
First thought that came to mind was... If she has kids, she has too good of a reason to drink, 
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Too boring for most?!
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Damn, Sometimes I think I should join the club. Lie like crazy to attract a partner. My life in a nutshell, I have a good job, Southern attire, serious but joke a lot to avoid most stress, somewhat of a home body, remodeling my home is my biggest joy at the moment, Love to take something that looks like crap and make it look new again, so... between work and remodeling it don't leave a lot of free time. I don't need to get drunk to enjoy life. Dinning out is a treat not something I do often. I tell it like it is, and not into bs..ing just to find someone. They can take me as I am or keep walking. That said.... Seems all of the women I have met want the BS. As if the more a guy can lie and make himself appear to be such a catch, Even if it is CLEARLY bull...thats the one she wants. Is reality and down to earth really such bad traits in a guy?? Oh but you left out the little tidbit about you having 7 kids. And you left out the tidbit that they are all grown and on their own, and it wouldn't have been 7 if it were not for a set of triplets in the mix. But on the other hand, this thread wasn't started to tell my entire life story, that is what emails and getting to know each other is for. And your point was??? |
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Too boring for most?!
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Telling the truth is good. It's how you say it than can be a major turn off. There's nothing wrong with softening a statement and usually people are more likely to actually hear and accept something that is stated without harshness. It's not dishonest. It's just good communication. 
Hell, I'll be the first to say that I need some practice at this. usually pretty blunt. 
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Too boring for most?!
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yep, you sound boring to me!... go do something fun, get out of the house!!! $.02
I do, I go fishin.. fun, keeps me out of trouble and provides a meal in the end!
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Too boring for most?!
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Personally, im weary of any guy who promotes his own sincerity. If he doesn't, who will? Who knows him better than he does? A guy who promotes the fact hes down to earth, usually, isnt,imo. Most of the sincere men i know dont brag about it at all,they just r. There is a huge difference between bragging or standing ones ground. |
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Too boring for most?!
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Personally, im weary of any guy who promotes his own sincerity. If he doesn't, who will? Who knows him better than he does? No kidding!! And my story does not change for different people or different situations. I don't feed practiced lines, If women can't face reality and take me for what I am, and honestly take the time to get to really know me, It's their loss. I'm just not looking for a fling. |
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