Damn, Sometimes I think I should join the club.
Lie like crazy to attract a partner.

My life in a nutshell,
I have a good job, Southern attire, serious but joke a lot to avoid most stress, somewhat of a home body, remodeling my home is my biggest joy at the moment, Love to take something that looks like crap and make it look new again, so... between work and remodeling it don't leave a lot of free time.
I don't need to get drunk to enjoy life.
Dinning out is a treat not something I do often.
I tell it like it is, and not into bs..ing just to find someone.
They can take me as I am or keep walking.

That said....
Seems all of the women I have met want the BS.
As if the more a guy can lie and make himself appear to be such a catch, Even if it is CLEARLY bull...thats the one she wants.

Is reality and down to earth really such bad traits in a guy??

Sooooooo what about how you described yourself makes you boring or a bad catch?

Ohhhhhhh the one's that want to be wined and dined and jewelry, etc? Aren't those the one's you'd rather avoid???

It seems like men like you always live over 500 miles from me!

I always wondered, if you lied and told them you were an astronaut or a doctor, and then the truth be told after that magical moment, what would their reaction be? Maybe more people can love people for who they are, not what they do, or how much they make. If the case is the latter, then I need a really hot sugar-mama to make me happy and buy me stuff.

trying my hardest to figure out why anyone would wanna try and attract someone that wants them to be someone else? that seems like a disaster waiting to happen.

You know, Katz, they really do have some great super-saver deals on Southwest and Frontier these days.

Shhhh don't tell..

ooh sorry

That was my question
But the truth sure make women run the other way pretty fast,
I don't understand it myself.

Is like women was the fantasy world??
Hell.. even the drunk unemployed bum down the street usually has women hanging around.
Go figure!!

maybe they run because self pity is very unattractive...

Then let those women have those guys... Not all women are that way.. It's the special one that will stand out and be the one...

Thats it, just waiting to find that right someone else!
I can't lie and roll play.

well... then don't it's really that simple.

Aint that the truth!
Usually when I find one that catches my interest.. she is hundreds of miles away

You would be surprised at some of the little random things that are attractive to some women. If you're not being yourself, you won't find someone who is genuinely attracted to you.

Self pity hardly
Id be a damn good catch and wont just settle for the first gal that comes along.

So maybe just a toolbelt would work

You are right there, none of them are the type I would want.

You sound like you are a nice guy..

damnit dan... I was just gonna say that