Do you think this kind of stuff has always gone on and was just hushed ot is there more of it now and it is talked about? It is hard to trust anyone around your children and that is just so sad.

Thank you for the warm welcome and I try to post but they just get lost because the people that know one another start talking about something and its on to something new lol. I like the site and want to be a part of the party so I will just keep posting.

Wanted to share a story: Before my husbands accident he said he would haunt me if I was ever with another man after he died well I went on a date and the next day my car blew the motor. Things that make you go hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.

My late husband was a Vietnam Vet in those days you were drafted and you had 3 choices go to war, go to jail, or move to Canada. Not many good choices are they? He was one of the first ones in and did things he never wanted to do in his life. On his death bed he cried and cried because of what he did and on top of this when he came home he was spit at and cursed at and called a baby killer, and then on top of everything else for the longest time it wasn't even considered a war with no benefits or programs for those that had seen the carnage or been a part of it. I am against war, I am against killing but I am proud of all the brave that do what they are told to protect us and keep us as safe as possible. In answer to the question of dating someone that has a brother that was a sex offender, why should the good brother be judged for what the bad brother did? I would watch my children very closely but these days church is not even safe so they should be watched with any adult even a female sunday school teacher that is your neighbor.

maybe I should get a new phone number where they do have to pay for it lol.

I AM NEW TO THE SITE AND I AM A WIDOW. MARRIED 3X STARTING AT 18 BUT MY LATE HUSBAND WAS THE TRUE LOVE OF MY LIFE. I AM READY TO SEE WHERE THE NEXT PATH TAKES ME. OUR LOST LOVED ONES MAY BE GONE BUT I KNOW WE WILL NEVER FORGET THEM. I ALSO BELIEVE EVERYONE NEEDS TO MOVE ON AND TRY TO FIND HAPPINESS AGAIN, I KNOW I WANT TO FALL IN LOVE AGAIN.

OK I GOT A QUESTION TO THE MEN

WHY DO SOME OF THE MEN ON HERE SAY THEY WANT A RELATIONSHIP WITH JUST ONE WOMAN THAT THEY ARE TRUE GENTLEMEN WANT TO GET TO KNOW YOU AND YOUR AWESOME BLAH BLAH BLAH.
THEN YOU MEET OR YOU JUST CHAT ON THE PHONE AND THE FIRST 10 MINUTES ARE GREAT THEN ALL OF A SUDDEN YOU DEALING WITH A 16 YEAR OLD AND YOU FEEL LIKE YOUR IN THE BACK SEAT OF HIS DADDYS CAR. OR....YOU CHATTING AND THEY ARE SO WONDERFUL AND YOUR THINKING WOW HE WANTS TO GET TO KNOW ME WHAT I'M ABOUT AND ALL OF A SUDDEN THEY ARE WANTING FREE PHONE SEX.
AND THEY SAY WOMEN ARE CONFUSING.

I am new also. Hope you find what your looking for.

I love facial hair but only on men. A goatee is the best or a beard that is trimmed.....Yummy

Hi I am new to the site about 24 hours and I really like it. Looking for friends and whatever comes. I like what I have read in the forum so far and sooooooo true.