Who is bf?

In the meantime I dancing around with my clown nose, hat and big balloon. Anybody else wants to join in?

I am not BRIGHT like Jesse.

Mary says that Doug is thinking about leaving her to back with Stan.
What should she do?

Coulld someone give names to A, B,C & D. I am getting confused and my head is spinning.
I aint so brightto decipher that algebra.

This lady says that her boyfriend with whom she is having sex, is wondering if he should leave her to GO BACK TO HIS FORMER WOMAN.
wHAT SHOULD SHE DO?

Let's say a relative of mine wants some URGENT ADVICE?

That relative says that their MATE, whom they love and they DO, and will do ANYTHING for, (wash their car, cook, clean, worship them etc) is now telling them that their X mate is pleading with them for them to "DUMP me and go back with X"

My young relative is thinking?
"My Mate listened to all that pleading from their X??????
When did they listen to that? Was it on a date they had? How many dates have they had so far. Was it on the phone for hours while I was cooking, cleaning and washing car? Have they started having sex? If Mate has been with me for a couple of weeks and was with X for a couple of years, what are my chances of being dumped? SHOULD I NOW NOT DUMP MY MATE B4 MATE DUMPS ME OR SHOULD I START LOOKING FOR A NEXT MATE RIGHT AWAY? Or what should I do?

JSH outthere, WHAT IS YOUR ADVICE?
ALL ADVICE WOULD BE APPRECIATED!!!

B4 a person has sex with one of two persons; you decide: "What do I want.
After U start having sex with one of them; YOU HAVE ALREADY DECIDED WHAT U WANT AND NOW HAVE TO STICK TO WHAT U SAID WHEN U HAD SEX OR WHAT U SAY WHILE HAVING SEX.

20 years or so in the future, WHAT ADVICE ARE YOU GOING TO GIVE U SON WHEN HE IS IN THE SAME POSITION THAT MIKE IS IN NOW?

WHAT ADVICE ARE YOU GOING TO GIVE U DAUGHTER WHO IS IN THE SAME POSITON LIKE MIKE IS IN NOW?

At that time in the future, you will be told and would already have learnt that OLDER WOMEN IS SUPPOSED TO GIVE THE YOURGER WOMEN SOBER ADVICE. NOT LEAD THEM ASTRAY.

It is not men who don't care when they have to decide between two women. Men feel sorry. I can give stories about that. I do not have the time now. However, when a woman is ready to let go a man, HE COULD CRY BLOOD, SHE WILL DUMP HIM MERCILESSLY and she and her female friends will say: "Think about Uself and what U want!!

Read what I said again. I am talking from experience. U will end up sneaking back with Mike, if U go back with Ex.
I have been on BOTH sides of that fence. That is not easy to fight.

Morally, U have 2 leave Ex alone.

There is the WIFE MATERIAL woman; and there is the FRIENDING material woman. What is the difference? The woman who can KEEP her verbal contract. Which should U be??

Yeah! What do you want?
Do you want to be called a person who cannot keep their word?
It seems from your writings that U r more leaning towards cruelly DUMPING Mike and going back with Ex; and you wish people could tell U just What you WANT to HEAR, TO CLEAR YOUR CONSCIENCE.

Well that is wrong!! (Deuteronomy: 24: 1-4)
Let's say that you were married (registered) to Mike. Would the paper have made you think differently and say what do I want; I am in love with Ex?

It could be that it was the SAME thing you were doing when you were with Ex, that caused the break up; so you have a soft spot because you know that YOU were the cause. This woman used to be called STUPID by her relatives, for coming back with me EVERY TIME we broke up but she wasn't telling them that SHE was the hurt-giver and cause of the break-ups. Instead SHE HAD A SOFT SPOT FOR ME when I was the one that was stupid.

There a many people like this. They do not care about other people's feelings; only about theirs.
THAT IS CALLED SELFISH, WICKED, EVIL, NASTY. CRUEL AND BS.

How can you lie down spread U legs for a man and then tell him: "I don't want you again. That was a mistake." If a man does that, you will hear how much DOGS AND DEMON AND SCUM women right here will call him.

Listen!!? U think if U go back with Ex, you wont MISS Mike at and then come back here to ask what to do because you NOW feel for Mike's technique?

Well let me tell U something! That is going to happen!!!
The only time you will realize how lucky you were for being with Mike, or just realize that U are missing mike, is when you are back with Ex and done SWEAR to Ex on a whole stack of Bibles, that you will NEVER go back with Mike. Then you might see who is the other lucky person that is going to get Mike, and have the same problem as to what to do because Mike tells you: "Let's try again"

Then you will be going back and forth until the both of them, bawling in pain, dump you.

I was with a woman who use to go back and forth between her Ex and I. Sometimes she will come steaming and say: 'Greiving' I want YOUR technique"; and sometimes when we are screwing, she will give me lessons on HIS technique.
Sometimes BOTH of us are looking for her 12 Oclock in the night; and she with a next man.
Until eventually, BOTH of us let her go. Both of us leave house and everything, almost, for her.

I had to use my mind to tear away, for she was VERY beautiful, and ALSO had GOOD TECHNIQUES.

I deal with these things with my MIND, (as one needs to) not my heart. And people will tell me: "Greiving' I am GLAD you are finished with that CRAZY WOMAN; YOU AINT GOING BACK WITH THAT CRAZY WOMAN???

DO NOT BE A CRAZY WOMAN??????

Hi Lily! Long time no see! I am down to earth and do not lie; and also not a braggart. Put a lil smile on U face please???????????

The next thing? Mike will STOP doing those things and you are going to say that he was pretending all the time, or you will pick a row with him as an excuse to dump him and he will KNOW that is what you are doing. Men are not as stupid as some women think.

You have nothing to figure out now. You are with Mike already. U are with Mike now. If you were in Mike's position would you have liked to be dumped? Or even have him tell you that U r thinking about Ex? U are up the road now; do not turn back. You have to fight that battle in your mind first. As soon as Ex enters your head, GET HIM OUT; for what ever U keep thinking about, that you will do. THINK ABOUT MIKE INSTEAD; He is doing all those things for you BECAUSE he really loves you and wants to win you while SHOWING you how dedicated he is when he is with a woman. Do not break his heart.
Follow the golden rule which I'm sure you know: "DO NOT DO TO OTHERS WHAT YOU DO NOT WANT DONE TO YOU."
Otherwise you ARE the problem and why you are the ex.
Give your word and keep it. LISTEN TO YOUR BRAIN.
Keep sticking to Great guy and more and more U will forget Ex's Sex techniques.
Being lonely for 6 months plus 6 months will make you most vulnerable to the person you were with before. So who do U think U will go back with when you get a burst of desire to be hugged? Either Ex or both of them at different times; Then U will have both of them calling you a Demon!

I was with a woman some years ago who DUMPED ME FOR HER EX. We told both that we are finished with our Ex. The next thing she starts to come and announce to me in pretty english: "I and (orn)Richard (Richud)had sex last night(lost noight.) That is while I am remaining faithful to her.

Then she tells me that there is a long line of men she has left crying, whenever Richud wants her back as she heads straight back to Richud without even turning corners.

So I start to get problems to function sexually inspite of how much I tried while I listen to how much she's going to bed with Richud. Sometimes I make sometimes I don't.

So one day I say to myself: "But wait! I stupid or whoa? Me ex begging me to go to bed with her and I refusing while this one going to bed with Richud?"

So one day when I could not get an erection, (which could happen when you are hurt by the person you're trying to get THE erection for; women does get dry instead.) I head straight across by ex who was waiting with open arms; immediately, I did not just get an erection but an 'iron bolt erection'

Then she start to put spies on me to see If and when I go by EX unknown to me; Then she says that I am not faithful to her and DUMPED ME SUDDENLY.

I WENT BACK WITH EX.

Quote:".i have been seeing a great guy for a couple weeks now...hes such a sweetheart, he cooks, cleans, just wants to make me happy. hes always doing sweet little things for me." Unquote.Beebee620

U have used words like: "Great guy; sweetheart; cooks cleans; just want to make U happy; always DOING sweet things; seeing for a couple of weeks......."

SO WHAT DO YOU WANT AGAIN? IS IT NOT THAT YOU ARE LOOKING FOR?

I am SURE that U told this guy that U n U ex was over. Sure thing. And U will NOT be getting back with him. Now Y should U even consider breaing GREATGUY'S HEART by changing at this time?

The person to wait in line is your ex NOT Great guy.

I learnt long time ago that if a woman took a chance on me while others were afraid to (while saying: "I am afraid U go back with ex) that I should not dump them to SNEAK back with ex. They were good to me at a time when I MOST needed someone while others were afraid they will get hurt, as I said, fearing that I will return to ex and dump them.

You go back with Ex if U DID NOT PICK UP SOMEONE YET.

DO NOT USE ANYONE AS U WON'T LIKE TO BE USED!!!

IF THAT HAPPENS TO YOU AFTER YOU WERE SO GOOD TO A MAN AND HE UPS AND TELL YOU HE IS GOING BACK WITH EX, HOW WOULD YOU FEEL?

Well it IS the SAME THING?

I will keep standing out so that U can email me PKH. Don't be shy?

PKH! I could have SWORN I told that you COULD eamil me. I thought U knew that.
Anyway, where is U pic sitting by the computer desk?

GOOD QUESTION CATCHME_IFUCAN

Hey your Beautyness.

Posting a pic is BASIC COMMON SENSE! When a person cannot realize this it is BELOW basic common sense and therefore SHALLOW OR 'NOT BRIGHT!!

Lucky thing I was talking about the 'PEANUT BUTTER getting a rash; wondering how and how awful that will look. So my mind is STILL clean?

You are in the right place. Big mistake by me. Sorry