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Tue 03/29/11 07:14 PM

Seamac, just delete the parts you don't want to quote when the message window comes up. :wink:



Thanks so much!!! artlo answered too but your way seems easier!!!



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Tue 03/29/11 06:07 PM
My profile says looking for man for friendship, hey ladies the truth is I am looking for friends period!

Maybe Krupa is right, skip that part altogether, just have the part of the profile you write yourself. I suppose that for a lot of people that would be to vague, really could I continue to get to know someone if I didn't know how tall or heavy he/she is??

msharmony you have brought up a very good point!

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Tue 03/29/11 05:59 PM

dont you sometimes wish these sites would offer an 'other' option in certain categories?

sometimes you can only choose married, single , divorced, or seperated, or widowed

and you can only choose wants children or doesnt want children


I have a situation where on paper I am married, but in real life I have not been in that (or any other) relationship since mid 2009

I am never sure which to pick because I certainly dont live the life of someone in a marriage, I am very much a single mother, but I wouldnt want to get involved in a relationship and have that marital status be a deal breaker anymore than I would want to attract the types interested in affairs with 'married' women.

I also have children of my own and dont want anymore(of my own) but I would welcome a blended family with someone else. So Im never sure how to intepret the category 'wants more children'


are there categories you have trouble narrowing down to YOUR situation?



I totally agree. I think there should be an 'other' option with a space to type in a brief answer. Till then, like Troublebug said we have our profiles to clarify things. Problem is that some good matches might not proceed to your profile if something turns them off like not wanting children.

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Tue 03/29/11 05:39 PM

Do you have a relationship with this person in real life or is it a new relationship online?




I was wondering the same thing, do you live close enough to be with each other for dates etc or is it an online thing so far?

I am glad you choose to stay, as others have said people are here for many reasons. I am here for fun, friendships (which I have made many of) and sometimes for support. I pay no attention to the dating part of this site. Since your new boyfriend was on here he should be aware that this is much more than just a dating site and not be threatened by you being in touch with friends and spending some time in the forums.

Take this slowly, he sounds a bit controlling and jealous to me.

Best of luck to you, hope all goes well!

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Tue 03/29/11 05:03 PM

artlo, I don't think you have ever perved me, feel free!! LOL
You're on!




Thanks! I feel ever so much better now!! drinker flowers

Hey how do you quote just part of a post? I have tried to highlight it but so far this doesn't seem to work for me?

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Tue 03/29/11 05:01 PM
Hi and Welcome Sadiesgirl! Glad to have you in the forums with us.

The FDA sanctions all kinds of nasty stuff in what we eat and drink, we all have to get/be educated and read labels. Generally speaking the less processed the better. One rule of thumb is to shop the outside isles of the grocery store, fruits and veggies, fresh meats and cheeses, a lot of stores offer fresh bread made in house, dairy...all found in the outside isles. Boxed, canned, highly processed - inner isles. This is not a hard and fast rule since beans, rice etc are in the inner isles, but it is a useful guideline, at least I felt it was when I first was made aware of it.

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Tue 03/29/11 04:53 PM
I sometimes wonder about the 20-30 old guys who are not forum users who check my profile. I feel like they are just cruising the site, see a picture they like and go check it out. Nothing wrong with that on a WW dating site, I just wonder what they are thinking checking out someone old enough to be their mom. Especially the ones who's headings say they are looking for a serious relationship.

artlo, I don't think you have ever perved me, feel free!! LOL

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Tue 03/29/11 04:44 PM
Hi and welcome! Jump into the forums to get known and get to know us. You will have some fun, make some friends and maybe meet someone special in the process.

Your daughter is a total cutie!!

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Tue 03/29/11 04:33 PM
I too have refused to use margarine, ever! Wouldn't even allow it in my house. All the times I dieted I went without rather than switch to any butter substitute.

If you are not a food label reader you might want to become one, there are so many foods you might not eat if you knew what was in them.

Willing2, thanks for sharing this information, even if Troublebug is the only person to re-think her choice you have made a difference!

Yea!! Troublebug, toss it and forget it!! flowerforyou

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Tue 03/29/11 08:02 AM
Thanks! I do clean cookies etc fairly regularly, guess I was just wondering why the spacing looks different while replying than when posted. If you say it is normal I believe you!! Thanks again.

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Mon 03/28/11 03:26 PM
I like my clavicles too (mentioned by bhernandez)
I like my long fingers, strong hands, what amazing tools they are and what ability they have to give comfort.
I like that my breasts are so little that I can almost always go bra-less, never in a tee though which means most of the summer I have to wear one.

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Mon 03/28/11 03:17 PM
I haven't danced in many years except alone in my kitchen. I used to be able to clog, long time ago - about the same time I learned to play the spoons. My dad tried to teach me to waltz, I was all over his toes, my mom and Nana were laughing so hard they almost peed themselves! Slow dancing to me means holding each other close and going round and round in little circles...actually wouldn't mind a little of that about now.

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Mon 03/28/11 03:09 PM


Okay....a lot of remembering to do here....

Jess, having the balls to say it and walk away would draw me to you. Question is, do I have the balls to follow? Let me get shot of liquid courage first, and I'll be right there.

Ms. Harmony....your approach would get me thinking, but it would be too passive to make me react. Truth is, I think you and I would get along well in real life. So, for me there is a slight disappointment there.

Josie, I'm kind of like that too, but I'm growing out of it. Of course, if you weren't already attached, I'd be tempted to break that silence if I saw you in a bar.....recognizing you from online, that is. :wink:

Rlynne....that line is cheesy, but you are attractive enough that if you played the ditz (to get me to laugh) then gave me intelligent, fun conversation....Yeah, you would definitely have my interest.

Chickayoshi....if only I was brave enough to do something that also. Still, I am the kind of guy to pick it up for you, completely oblivious to your intention, chase you down, and then miss all your blatant signals unless you actually gave me a rather unexpected big wet kiss. Then, I would be a zombie because you had just blown my mind.

TxsGal....that's usually what I do too. Hence the theme of my responses here. :tongue:

Stefy, it wouldn't take much to get my attention. Plus, you might actually be one who talked to me as a friend first. If you made a move after that....well, it would be hard (maybe impossible) to say no.

2KidsMom....What happened to the mask? The current pic is too nice to walk away from. Then again, you're also the type I'm more likely to have friendly chit-chat at a bar with, and get to know you over several weeks of running into each other. Still, I'm dense, and you would have to make the first move.

Did I miss anyone? I have I disparaged myself enough, let alone everyone else? Truth is, every woman I mentioned is hot in her own way. I'm just too chickenshit to do much about it. :laughing:


hehehe he went an left me out again lol kidding



Yea, left me out too, feel like crying me a river...LOL

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Sat 03/26/11 06:57 PM

I have no idea if i'm photogenic or not

I do know that my friends and family seem to differ in their ideas of what a good picture of me is, i almost never agree with them...



Well the pic you have posted now seems very good, a little sultry, a little sad, very beautiful.

Even when I was your age (young) I was not photogenic and in those days I was pretty hot. Meaning young, no wrinkles, no eye lid droop, no gray...but none of that has to do with photographing well. If a photo shows you well and honestly it is a good photo, not always flattering but a good likeness of how you appeared in that moment.

The photo I have to have taken tomorrow is like a mug shot of drivers license shot....I just hate being in front of the camera, what do I do with my hands? Smile which is friendly but increases wrinkles...guess maybe you have to have a history of being not photogenic and be of a certain age to get this.

Anyway it is all silly, it will be what it is and nothing I can do with creams or make up will change it.

Just bored and wanted to hear from all those who hate having their pic taken I guess...


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Sat 03/26/11 06:38 PM



i wanna a cabana boy!drool


that's fine just be sure to get ur ownlaugh


Do you think we could get a group discount if we order 12 or more cabana boys? :tongue:



Sign me up for two and call me greedy!!! It's been a long drought!

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Sat 03/26/11 06:34 PM
Thanks! This is why I am always behind the camera!! I take great shots because I pay attention, oh not always in snap shots, those can be hit or miss but when I am paid or a family member or friend wanted a good pic I was so on it.

I have my foundation (which is never right but tones down the red) eye shadow, mascara and lip gloss all laid out in the bathroom so that I can't possibly forget in the morning. UUUUGGGG

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Sat 03/26/11 06:27 PM
This is the reverse of your recent previous post, I am wondering if you read those responses?

There was a lot of response to the other post on this topic.

Just saying.....


Stay with your posts a bit and you might get the hints you need.

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Sat 03/26/11 06:20 PM
If this heading took you right back to grade school, welcome to my life!

Like a lot of jobs, my new job (which I am so grateful for) at Home Depot posts pictures in public places, like if you are employee of the month, or win an in store award...stuff like that. So tomorrow is picture day for me and way to early a start to my day to boot, I am not a morning person...

So here is my question, are you photogenic or not?

I am not a dog, I do look at least my age, in pics I my ruddiness comes out, my thin lips disappear and my nose grows like Pinocchio on a field day! I am to old and smart to be vain, this is not about being vain, I just don't photograph well. The pics I have on here are the best of about 30 taken that day.

So are you photogenic and do you have any tips for me to look better in these very public pics???? HELP!!!


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Sat 03/26/11 05:57 PM





I think I feel down right ill!!! Much as I love me some chocolate this is tooooo much!!! drinker

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Sat 03/26/11 05:42 PM


Hi action, welcome back! Sorry whatever took you away didn't work out but glad you had a place and friends to return to.

Funny I just posted about this in another thread, when I first joined I was contacted by a scammer, knew it almost immediately so nothing bad came of it but it left me shaken and left a bad taste for this site. However the memories of how much fun I had my first day or so brought me back. Since then I have made a few friends, had many, many hours of fun and found support when I needed it.

I have disappeared a few times since but never deactivated. Just sometimes life gets bigger and leaves no time for being on here. I was gone for months last year during my move, again recently due to starting a new job and a serious family illness. I am always glad to be back. It is one of the perks of this site that you can always count on being welcomed back without judgments.
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and I for one am glad u r here seamac!


Thanks sweetestgirl!!! Means a lot to hear this.


You sure do have pretty feet!! LOLOL But they match the rest of you!

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