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Wed 01/02/08 11:38 PM

So i like this girl online (Non JSH)and well she says she likes me and were talkin on msn, and she starts responding and i told her if im bothering her to just tell me, and she tells me no but she doesnt say much so i hint on tellin her i like her but she doesnt really say much about it then she doesnt respond so im feeling she in away mode
so i just log off

i dunno if i should keep talkin to her or tell her straight up if she too busy for me,
and i do like her?

im so confused
embarassed

Don't be confused mang.. Just have more fun with it. It's not rocket science... Don't come on soooo strong and elude to ANYTHING you might be feeling or thinking. Just shoot the ****e and it will work out if its supposed to :)

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Wed 01/02/08 11:33 PM

Well me too but I still talk to people and I'm always surprised at the "WTF" factor...

I like to eff with people a good amount, I guess I'm kinda shy... Or I guess I just think no one really cares what the hell I have to say, so I just feed em horse pucky. They either never get it and prove how numb they are, or they get it right off the bat and it's fun flinging pucky or it actually leads to a nice conversation.... I'm just not at all tenacious enough when it comes to asking for numbers or giving them.... That whole game is a hard one to play lol!! :)

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Wed 01/02/08 11:29 PM

then you start talking to them one on one and just to yourself "F'in WOW no wonder"...

That's why I don't talk to people... That seems to be pretty common these days. I thinks it something in the water... I only drink bottled! :)

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Wed 01/02/08 11:25 PM

I was in that situation muyself years ago. My best friend wouldnt listen and I couldnt take it. I finally told her that I could npo longer be her friend and watch the two of them destroy each other, possibly one of them get killed. I told her that I loved her and wanted the best for her but that it hurt too much. I walked away for years. You know what....she called earlier last year, she left her abusive relationship and is now engaged to man so worthy of her, and she deserves him. I am proud of her and her new life. SHe thanked me for walking away. It helped to open her eyes.

That's what I'm talking about, people like that are sometime looking for attention or have deeper issues that if you get involved, it usually escalates the drama and puts you dead center. Don't fuel the flames.

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Wed 01/02/08 11:23 PM
Don't call the cops, don't get someone to beat him up...
It's not your problem and it's not for you to get involved in other peoples lives. Just stop being her friend, who need friends like that anyway. People are so quick to forget that we pretty much choose every situation we put ourselves in...

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Wed 01/02/08 11:22 PM

ok my neighbor has an abusive x. She wont press charges, or file a restraing order. My problem is everytime something happens i hear about it. So do i stop being her friend or try and help? i give her advice but she never takes it.

Just tell her if she isn't willing to respect herself... She should expect you to respect her and you really don't need the drama. You just don't have the patience or time to deal with someone who wont learn and wont stand up for herself...
We help those that are willing to help themselves... :)

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Wed 01/02/08 11:18 PM
Check me out!!
My topics get people HOOKED THE EFF UP!!!
I'm dope like that... Now if only I could make that work for myself lol! :)

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Wed 01/02/08 11:09 PM
I'm sure Father Time doesn't trim the hedges, but my motto is...
"Anywhere I wouldn't mind a ladies mouth to be, keep it trim!" lol!!
Take it to heart fellas!! No one likes mouth muff! lol

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Wed 01/02/08 11:04 PM
My resolution will have to be....

"The only way it's REALLY going to be a great 2008, is if I take it by the short and curlies and make it a great 2008!" :)

What's yours?

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Wed 01/02/08 10:58 PM
I'm listening to the new song I'm creating in my head :)

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Fri 02/23/07 01:47 PM
I agree, allot of times we take our freedoms for granted. Allot of
people piss on this country, including people from this country, and I
know sometimes I knock it too, but when all's said and done, we have it
pretty good over here. However, I still think country is being headed by
jack asses, but that's another topic :)

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Fri 02/23/07 01:44 PM
I'm working all day today, all night tonight, probably most of tomorrow,
and all tomorrow night... Thank God for Sundaze!! I need a sugar momma!!
:)

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Wed 02/21/07 12:12 PM
The Beatles vs. Elvis Costello :) IT'S A WIN WIN SITUATION WITH ME :)

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Wed 02/21/07 12:07 PM
Check out my band anyone who is interested, and thanks for opening this
topic for discussion... I like feedback, positive or negative, it all
works as good informations... http://www.myspace.com/topshelftimes

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Wed 02/21/07 11:33 AM
Could you and Devin please stop fighting?!?! THINK OF THE CHILDREN....
WONT SOMEONE PLEASE THINK OF THE CHILDREN!?!? I thought this was a place
for La'mour, all I see is fightingsad

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Wed 02/21/07 11:25 AM
That sounds very... uhhhh.... personal lol :) Tell her I said
congratulations :)

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Wed 02/21/07 10:35 AM
Counseling wont do anything except open lines of communication by means
of an intermediary. Opening up communication doesn't mean squat when all
you are getting is lies... You want to get him back?? Leave his ass,
tell him to get his tail from online since he is obviously already
trying... Tell him to see how that works out because he wont be getting
it from you anymore. I've done the game playing thing and it only
prolongs the inevitable and messes with the psyche the whole while. It
is VERY true.... 2 wrongs do not make a right.

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Wed 02/21/07 10:31 AM
Do you suffer from poor bladder control Keiraaa?? :) lol.

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Wed 02/21/07 10:21 AM
I'm not a homophobe, I don't really care who looks at my profile. If
they ask me if I'm gay, I just say... nope! Sorry buddy, "Go Fish!!"
lol. I mean, if you are going to put your image and info about you in
such a public forum, you kinda need to be ready for these things to go
on.

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Wed 02/21/07 10:17 AM
I'm not a woman, but I think the answer is EVERYTHING!! lol