I would never join an online dating site.

Wow first of all welcome to Mingle2. Second I am not sure if you meant all this anger and hostility or not I am going to with the notion that you didn't. So to answer your question.

I think there are handsome men on all site. I belong to this site and another one. I have found beauty in a man or woman is from within and what they project first and foremost. The eye candy is just that and we all know it melts in the first rain storm.

Wow that's an insult to most of the men on here and most single straight men..... 1) handsome is SUBJECTIVE as is beauty 2) perhaps you don't know enough real men...

3) I'm so glad the negative nellies on here don't say that about women.. I've seen it all but I'm glad to know most have the class to not say most all of us single women are lesbians or married..

Okay you may not like my feedback on this question. This is my humble opinion. I find anyone that comes to a dating site and hasn't been here very long to make a post like this insulting and demeaning.

I believe that a person that is great looking has to have an inner beauty or it isn't worth the dry ugly wrinkles that are going to come sooner or later.

I have found many hot men on this site as well as another site I have been on.

I think being beautiful is a mental thing more than a physical thing.

Again I am not bashing you I haven't looked at your profile or any other of your posts just this one and the words written here.
Havea great day
Rains

I'm a family oriented guy. And the women I seem to be meeting online is crazy. They all seem to have very large issues, and some that I've even been afraid to fall asleep near. I just dumped my latest tonight. She like to cut herself with razorblades. It's starting to make me think the whole world has gone nuts.

I am too s&xy for this thread
so s&xy in my head
Yes I'm a model if you know what I mean
and I do my little turn on the catwalk
on the catwalk, yeah I do my little turn on the catwalk

Er... what was the question again?

They have been scared away by women

i've always picked the wrong woman. luckily they've always realized that i have no money and they split before getting to the church.
i guess i've lucked out.



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What happended to the good men ages 35-55 huh? Well, part of the men that age will be completely jaded by now, either through lack of luck (like me) or because some other woman ruined him for the rest of you (i.e. divorce). That's just part of them though.

You see, a truly honest to god good man is easy to find, you probably already know one, but just can't see him. He's that guy that's attentive to you, helps you out when you need it, sometimes shows up with pizza and beer just to watch movies with you. Oh, you probably tell the gals "he's just a friend," but I bet if you asked, he's dying to go out with you. Now a woman's first response is usually "I don't feel that way about him." But in fact, most ladies just have never thought of having those feelings for that type of guy, and a friendship is a great place to start a relationship. So, that's where you find a few more of the "good" ones.

Another place to find them, church. I'm not saying become a religious zealot by any means. But some people need the inner peace derived from sitting in a large room with 200 strangers. Meditation helps no matter where you do it, but some need that. These good men, probably aren't even on the internet dating sights. Might not have the self confidence to do it.

Just remember, most truly good men have had some person in the past take complete advantage of there soft hearts, and then dump the like a bad habit when something that only appeared better came into view. These men will be cautious, emotionally conservative and rather quiet. They know they can be easily hurt and are less likely to put themselves into situations where it can happen again. If you feel you're having to wait for a guy to come around, odds are, he's a good one. Be patient, and a little agressive, you'll bag him.

The only issue I have with online dating is often the person you end up being interested in and attracted to lives really far away.

Of course, you have to validate their identity and ensure they are good people but that needs to happen with meeting folks in real life as well.

Other than that, it's a great way to meet people with whom you have common interests; especially if you're too busy to get out much and/or you're not one to frequent places where there might be single people, such as the bar scene.

You have an opportunity to weed out people who you don't want getting into your private life, i.e. giving out your home address, your phone number, having them meet your children.

I think women sometime don't even know what the heck they want when it comes to a relationship, and end up with the wrong guy! surprise!!!

yea baby!!