I read a true story about two brothers who never lacked for dates. Every night they could have a date if they chose to and the women always felt cared about and respected. The men treated them with dignity and laughed with them and not at them, never were cruel and always asked what they wanted to do, eat, and talk about. They were interviewed and said they loved their life and never were lonely, that the secret to being happily single or even finding that special someone was respecting the person as who they are and listening to them, being caring for real was more nurturing and rewarding to them than casual intimate encounters.

Also, I reda where if you do not have enough protein in your diet or if one wears hats it will stunt or stop hair growth.

My hair was not growing at all after I cut it years ago until someone clued me into biotin, avalable at Wal-mart, and any vitamin shop. It works really great!

I watched one season of it and it was interesting, but gory. My friend really loves it though I kind of like the old sci-fi classics better. Alot of good shows though coming up, especially from the comics.

Amen to that!

kind of like the "free beer and pay toilets?" ha ha.

Actually, no I have not been divorced since then. But will be looking for good friends even when I am married. There is always room in life for good friends, as they are blessings. Food cannot fill the soul like the care of a friend can.

Swirling as I shake them in a globe or sparkling over a make believe palm tree in the tourist center place at Wal-mart
coming down dizzy cold melting each unique like a friendship tasted
and made a part of your being
thought and feelings
looking up and touching each one with the tip of my tounge as a child
wondering where the snowflakes come from
or who draws the pictures on the bus windows in the frost
or who makes the pictures in the clouds? My gradnfather on the Indian Reservation said God uses the indian paintbrush flowers to paint sky pictures. I know that was not true, but it was still beautiful
snow spiarrling down
walking with someone and being warm
snuggling when you are cold
good faith like warm chocolate to the soul
friendship makes one feel happy and whole
and alive
not plastic like a globe on a shelf at the store among all the others

without true kindness
we are an impotent
DEAD planet
floating in the black spaces of our beings
without good thoughts and feelings
with static sparks of electric souls
blowing through the holes we let blast out our pain
turning us inside out
spilling our guts and dreams into blood and acid rain
black swirling dust that hits the lungs and fills the mind with grit
gets underneath the glasses of our idiocyntric beings
our corporate mindset society
walking through life like a zombie
are we
without the true kindness of feelings
nothing material matters then
when you have no one
left
and you are ashes
my friend died and many wrote about her and cried and there was a rainbow in the winter snow above my trailer home
going over it to Heaven
a promise
I miss her
and hope when I die
someone will have also
been blessed by me

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True, and some men are very feeling as well and like to connect and feel they are appreciated and loved fully before they want to give intimacy.

a mother's love, I know how that feels when my kids are down. Hugs!

I agree. A nice hug can get me through the rest of the week! As well as the nice letters on here from folk and seeing how people feel, makes one feel not alone.

Today when I was talking to someone in Texas where I used to live, I wished I was there and missed them so much.

About 5-7 I think. But everyone I dated other than that were worse, even though at first one seemed perfect. So I think to be thankful for what I have.

I may get married, but will still be on here to reach friends. It is a very good site and great to write on here and see others as well, especially when one lives in a remote area as I do. aloha.

very cool, thanks. I wrote it actually from a dream I had years ago that was really not a dream as I when I went to Ghana, West Africa, they gave me a holy cloth with the three in one symbol of God as it is also so in the triny faith the father, Son, and Holy Ghost being one as we are also mind, body, soul three in one. I was told in the dream that God is the only TRUE answer and although we may not feel God, he reaches through us if we trust and follow Him. Blessings!

wow! thanks. I am happy to share what I can and love to read the poems on here as well. so many talented people with very interesting things to share.

thank you

But I do not like those who proclaim to be something
and by their actions prove as the princess in THE PINK PANTHER movie said, they will never be
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