Hey, welcome to my page, and yes I do believe in many ways i AM SUPERWOMAN....... I am an emotionally and mentally healthy woman and would like you to be the same( but a man). I have three kids, and I know I am a very good mom, it is ok if you have kids also, I do not want more children in the future though. I like to enjoying what life has to offer, in the many differant ways it offers it I like being busy and also enjoy the quite and also some time alone although as a single mother it does not happen that often......lol and I do not always have free time so don't think I can just drop eveything and go because I wont do it. I have no plans on introducing my children to anyone anytime soon, so even if you think it would be a nice thing to take them somewhere, I am not open to it for the time being. I have an open sense of humor and some times a very twisted sense of humor, and find many things funny, i am also sarcastic and sweet. I love to laugh and play and even think sometimes life calls for a good wrestling match. I do believe honesty is very important, I want you to be like me and be a bad liar..lol I want you to be sick if you think about lying to me. I am open and honest I like to talk and get to know someone, I think you can tell a lot about a person by the questions they ask and the answers they give. I Rarely drink and perfer that it be something you do very little of. Though this is long wont tell you all my likes and dislikes here because then how am I going to know who you really are. I'm looking for my perfect guy, hanging out with guy, dating material guy, likes to have fun guy, can make me laugh and joke guy,can be serious and dependable guy, guy you bring home to mom without getting a lecture from her guy. Loves kids and animals (has to have a heart), can keep up a conversation (doesn't let me do all the work), is a great kisser (not negotiable), is pionate(also not negotiatable) and doesn't live with his parents (this either). I'm a very warm girl who wants to please my man and have him want to please me as well. But, at the same time, I want a guy that is not afraid to tell me what he likes, and for him to be experienced enough to enjoy the things I like as well. I am good friends with my recent ex of two years, we also have great relationships with each others children and I do not plan on ending it, I am grateful for the lessons I have learned in life and especially for some of the most recent ones, and think when you can end a relationship and be friends and see the wisdom that has come from it as well as be thankful for the growth then you know it was the right thing while it lasted. I am actually open to more then just dating but they only let you pick one, I do believe you can never have to many friends and that not everyone you talk to or meet is going to potentially be "the one" but the people you meet along the way, both men and women, can be wonderful people to have in your life. If you say dating you might appear that you have no long term relationship ideas, talk /email, we all know where that is going usually, friends is fine, activity partner can get questionable. You can't get to long term without dating first but I don't want you to ume that i am going to plan a wedding anytime soon......lol, at the same time dating seems like such a loaded word sometimes anymore. Some of the others depends on what you are thinking because I am not going to sit on my phone or on my computer and " play" with you. However There does not appear to be a shortage of women that will do that for you so I am grateful that it wont even come up.( it appears I also need to let some people know that I do not want to have any kind of a conversation that includes how long it has been for you and whether or not it makes me nervous.... cause I DON'T CARE lets keep sex out of it while getting to know each other ok......) I also think I am more then a few extra pounds but less then BBW so I picked the one I wanted to.... lol have lost weight and am still so maybe one day will only be a few extra but it is not at the moment.