Thought i would switch it up here ,and give some info., about my past relationship,I met her ,here at a local mall in the small town of Hanford calif.,This place is in the centrel Valley . Well we met ,talk for about 2 hrs., had something to eat ,we both hook up that day .She invite me over to her perents house.Hr perents like me right off the back! At the time i was 33 ,she was 19 going on 20.She did not care about my age ,she just fell for me. I also fell for her too!I guess you can call it falling in love! Well going past alot of the evrey day thing a man and woman do with one another.We got along great,her perents loved me !Well it did last 2 1/2 years really long story short and sweet,She was seeing another man ,makeing sure you all understand me here....!!She cheatted on with a ( BLACK MAN ) !This girl at the time i really thought we were going to stay with one another.Why i say this is cause we had talk about ,getting married!But i guess she had other plans. So yeah i can say my Trusting of a woman is abit iffy!I can say with full honesty here ,i never had a home town girl friend nore did i have a High school sweet heart. From the age of 18 ,to 35 ,i had took care of my mom who was sick for few years past away when i was 35 ,my girl friend of 2 1/2 years cheated on me ,left me for this black man. So yeah i'm not bitter just pist me off.I think i have the right to be pist off mad about it .But i can say today im injoying my life disspight im single.I have been single now for about 10 or so years. Now some may think im trying to sway your thought of me maybe and maybe not.Like i stated before im not going to lie about anything about me.I'm not going to lie in what im looking for either.I have the balls to state what i want ,and ill stick with it .Now some woman may think im just older man looking for a ( ) ,no not at all. I'm just looking for something most men are looking for on a dateing websight.It's just i'm the kind of person who will state it !Im not going to back down to what i want,i'm not going just through hoops either.you would think some woman would like a person that knows what he want from a ( Female ),Hopefully you get a better understanding of who i am . Do not get me wrong i have a kind heart ,im loveing and careing of my family,friends.I hate it when a friend is hurting and needs some help .I try to help when i can ,if they need money if i have help them,if one needs ear i have to hear what they need to say. Guess i should state my Likes . 1. good food 2.Kind hearted person 3.Like to smoke weed,hash great pain killer no lie there! 4.like to go camping,fishing ext., 5.Respcet 6.love funny dumb movies off the wall kind ! 7.cats and dags 8.playing world of warcraft 9.like to watch the rain come down. 10.love the hot sun and the beach ! 11.there is more but i do not wish to bore ... 12.forgot Black belt 9th degree ,in Hopkedo as well and photo in black belt magz., My disslikes. 1.people who are ***hole out right just to be! 2.rudeness 3.people who think they are better then most! 4.The smell of man or wonam boddy bee-o! 5.Fakes,lairs ,posers 6.there is more but hey no point there disslikes. Music,old time rock and roll,club,drum and b,techno,jazz,some raygay! As you can see im not perfect person.I'm hope there is someone woman who is looking for guy like me! All i want is a girl friend!But it seems like i'm pulling teeth with out novacain!Would like to fine a woman here in santa cruz /boulder creek!