I like interesting, fun people, with a positive outlook on life. Good conversations are so important, but recognizing that I need to have quiet, alone time on occasion is also a must. I am a very responsible person, very busy woman with many responsibilities - but when I am with you, I shower my man with love and affection. I want the same in return. I understand that you are busy - you have responsibilities, but please treat me with care and kindness and make me laugh when we can be together. I don't really seem to connect with the "perfect" people. I have my history - I have lived a full life and I enjoy hearing about your full life too. Be confident, but not y. Show me you care about me with chivalry, but respect that I am an equal human being also (no woman haters). If you cannot handle being with a decisive and strong woman who knows what she wants and goes after it... then you and I are probably not a great fit. I hope you are out there. Write me. Hopefully this is needless to say, but please no freaks, women beaters, drug addicts, molesters, ... you get the point