I'm and 6'6" tall and weigh 240lbs and even though I am very physically fit I am trying to lose a percentage point or two from my body fat index. I have a dark complexion. Although I am from Northern KY, I haven't spent much time there since I left for the Navy. I've spent 4 years living in Okinawa Japan. Six years ago I was unexpectedly blessed with a daughter -- Desiree'-- she is the true light of my life. And, although her mother is a beautiful person, we were not meant to be and I wish her all the best that life has to give. Anyone entering my life must respect the relationship that my daughter and I have and are deverloping. This is not to say that I will negate your feelings and concerns for my daughter's, and neither would I negate hers for yours. My perfect match? I've always thought that my perfect match was 5'6" 120 lbs blond hair blue eyes and dark complexion and although I've had several so-called "perfect" matches, I have learned that each and every relationship has the potential to be a "pefect" match. Although, appearances can generate an initial attraction, true attraction comes from getting to know the other person, from discovering their heart. I no longer dismiss any woman based on appearances alone for I have had the worst expereiences of my life with the most beautiful women and the most charged and memorable experiences with those I thought to be other than my "perfect" match. Unlike Jerry McGuire, who said, "You complete me." I am looking for that special woman that "compliments" my life not completes my life. A life to be completed results in neediness and unhealthy attachment. A life to be complimented, a life to be shared, leads to true love and compion for the other person. I've had enough of the "You complete me"- type of relationship--you know the psycho ones. I hope to find a woman that I want to be with, I want to share my life with her's, to be better together than apart, not because we need each other to be complete but because we are complete we want each other.