Hi...Im looking for a Man who definately knows who they are & isn't afraid to Laugh. 1 who can BE PRESENT, cuz Everyone deserve PRESENCE. Gotta be able to communicate & definately have no hidden intentions for your benefit, & Is So Transparent that they probably don't even realize how true their being. I do Always see My Glass Filled more than enough.I've had a rough childhood inwhich made me the strong, determined, hard working &independant single parent for over a decade. Im Humbled & Grateful & appreciate every moment God presents in front of me. Ii Dont Rush into Anything but take my time with every aspect of my life. When you Rush you miss things & make mistakes. What you give is what you get. If you don't put in the Effort I won't waste my Effort. Honesty is a big thing for me. I don't care about your past or what you own. Im not a jealous person, Im very active & love to be out when Im not working. Ofcourse this should go without saying.. My God & Kids Come 1st...I’m Very Honest, Positive, Loyal & I Do Mean what I Say & Say what I mean.I am not from the "Tell ME State" Im from the "SHOW ME STATE" I have NO time 4 Drama Games or getting in2 your MidLife Crisis. I am NOT a Hookup! Im Very Old School w Standards, Self Worth & Respect. I am a positive light in everyones life. I AM 1 OF A KIND!! IM VERY DIFFERENT!!!! VERY SHY, RESERVED, NERDY , FUNNY , SENSUAL, OPTIMISTIC, SPONTANIOUS, SWEET, TOUGH, BLUNT, PASSIONATE, LOYAL , SENSUAL,HONEST, DETERMINED, DEPENDABLE & MY BIGGEST FLAW IS.... I WORK WAAAYYYY TTOOOO MUCH.... Thats about it.. If you only have 1 pic on your profile, dont expect me to respond to someone that didnt put enough effort in representing themselves. Melania Mahalo