I am a relatively shy person until we get to know each other after that you can not quiet me down. I am just starting to date after more than a year. I have enjoyed having a little freedom. Now I realize though I am tired of being alone. I am tired of being the guy when my friends go out that is not married or does not have a girl friend you can start to feel like a third wheel. I want to put an end to that. I have 2 great children one boy and one girl who live with there mom most of the time but they will always have to be my first concern