Looking for my Ron Weasley. I would love to find someone with a British accent, someone that is kind, caring, loyal, faithful, sweet, and understanding and patient. Red hair would be pretty cute. I love gamers (xbox is fine, but I really prefer MMO's on the computer, maybe something we could do together). I also like RPGs (Final Fantasy, etc.), so that would be okay, too. I love music, just about everything, just not so much hard rap or house music or whatever it is lol. I have a few health problems: I have a perineal descent, which kind of means my insides are falling down since my last kid :-( So I am at a crossroads because to make it better I have to have a hysterectomy. So I have to decide if I am done having kids. But I kind of want at least two more, so I have to figure it out. It doesn't really bother me too much and shouldn't bother my partner because it's not that bad,but it does have some issues of discomfort at times. I also was born with spina bifida, but I am highly functional. I am not in a wheelchair or anything like that. The worst part about it is that I have an ugly scar at the end of my spine that makes the top of my butt look weird and ugly :-( And that my bladder doesn't work properly, so I have to self-cath to go pee. So again, that doesn't affect me much and shouldn't affect my partner either, unless you are just extremely shallow like my ex. :-( It does cause me to get more yeast infections and bladder infections than the average person, but as long as I keep on top of it and get medicine to take care of it, there is usually no issue. I had to have one of my kidneys removed because I had reflux in it, which was causing more damage and kidney infections than good (plus my kidney only worked about 5-6% anyway), so they thought taking it out would be best to take it out, and they were right. No kidney trouble since then, and that was like 18 years ago. Other than that, I just get a lot of headaches (probably from stress, poor posture, not enough support while sleeping, and wearing my hair too tight when in a pony tail), but other that that, my health is okay and fairly manageable. So if you're still wanting to talk to me after all that, I'm still here. :-) If not, I understand. Not many people seem to want or be able to deal with it. So those that are still here,I'm ready to get to know you better :-)