Hi.. If you are younger than 65 or are over 250 miles from Montrose, CO, or Ajijic, Jal. Mexico, don't bother to write; I will simply delete your message and you will wonder why you have been ghosted. I have been married 3 times and am not going to be another White Knight. If you are not bright, beautiful, successful, age appropriate, and financially secure, please don't contact me. I have been on six continents, have cruised many times, have been SCUBA diving all over the world, have a home in Chapala, JAL, Mexico and one in Colorado. I enjoy the Jalisco Philharmonic and am listening to Dvorak's 8th symphony as I write this. I like fine theater and just saw 5 Broadway quality shows in 3 days. I help backstage at Lakeside Little Theatre. I am retired and look at the world practically and mechanically. I like to help my community and have been a Rotarian for > 30 years. My marriage is over; she has moved back to Mexico. The divorce is in the courts. I guess I am looking for a friend with benefits who, ideally, will be my life partner. Will that be you? PS I don't cook!!!