First let me say thank you for taking time to look at this.I have since grown my hair out for the band so if long hair on a man is a deal breaker, I am sorry . This is where I am to put my preferences and tell you about me.This profile is meant to be honest in my likes and dislikes and let you know something about ME. I have known true love for one before... true love is when you care about the other persons feelings more than you care about your own. I hope to find that again. I am a very shy person until you get to know me and then watch out, I can be the life of the party. Anything you would like to know , just ask. The only way to get to know a person is to talk to them..I like to joke around and have fun... I am very dedicated and honesty is one thing I want in my life. I don't do any drugs but I don't care if YOU smoke ganja (I WON'T):) .I like to have a drink with friends when watching live music or performing. I believe that the past is the past and everyone had a life before. I don't worry about that as each day is a new day to make memories. To me a relationship is not seeing someone once every couple of weeks and never calling. I want someone that wants to make memories together and share their lives with each other so we have something to look back on together later in life. To help encourage each other and make each others lives here on earth easier. I am not into casual dating or playing games. I believe in love at first sight.Too many people mistake loving someone for being IN love with someone and they aren't the same thing, one of you is bound to get hurt that way. I would like a strong woman that knows how to ask for help when it is needed. I have old fashioned values(opening doors etc.) However I have found the really nice guys do finish last when it comes to love. But then why would you want to give your love to someone that doesn't want it, appreciate it and return it ..... I live my life by the quotes.. " It isn't the breaths in life that you take that make your life, but rather the moments in life that take your breath away" "People will show you who they are .... Believe them" * The pics of me on here are about 8 months old except the pic with really long hair, that is must older. I am a one woman man and don't believe in dating a bunch of people at the same time.I would prefer that type of person. My 2 biggest pet peeves are : 1.People that say they want a real relationship and then don't have time for one. A real relationship is wanting to be together whenever you can. 2. When you are chatting with someone or on the phone and they just stop talking to you in the middle of a conversation and blow you off. Or they tell you that they have another call waiting and just hang up with a really short good-bye. If you are NOT interested in someone while talking to them..have the decency to just be honest and tell that person, I don't think we are right for each other. You must have a pic on here if you are contacting me. It's only the fair thing to ask as I am on here for you to see if you like my looks. I will reply to every single email I MIGHT get even if I don't think we are match. I don't believe in being rude to anyone ... ever. I will not mislead anyone period, I know how that can hurt,TRUST ME.... I have been hurt before and could never make someone feel like I did. I am a huge animal lover however I have found very few cats that I trust. This paragraph is not meant to hurt anyone's feelings, it is part of the honesty thing that I mentioned earlier . We ALL have personal preferences on what we find attractive as far as looks go. Mine would be if you are a smaller(pee)woman under 5'7" or so I would prefer that. After all isn't it some sort of physical attraction that draws us towards that person to see if we want to get to know them better. If you like what you have read great, if not I am sorry that you didn't but we are each individuals with different likes and dislikes.. I thank you very much for spending a few minutes reading this, IF you made it this far:). Good luck to everyone out there. I hope that you all find that special one that makes your heart beat faster just being around them or make you melt when you touch. That it lasts forever and that you have a lifetime of happiness. Peace