I see "searching for soul mate" alot but do they really exist is my question. You want to know about me? I am the kind of person no one seems to be able to figure out. They get close though and then I go and change everything.:) Hey I just described a woman didn't I? I could describe myself right now but that will change in a few minutes so I'll leave it with....I am me. Okay I'm back to add more. I just saw a guy who asked why all the great women are crazy. I fell out of my chair. Too funny, I think I will answer that question here. I am happy, sad, funny, not funny, nice, not so nice, loving, not so loving, etc. And I can be all these things during only 10 minutes. That is crazy to most men. I wonder sometimes if there is a man who could see the many emotions of a woman and not think it's about what he is doing or not doing? What do women want and how does a man deal with all the emotions? For me it is simple. I want to feel safe to express whatever, know someone is listening and not making it about them, and then let me cry without looking at me like I am crazy. A hug to let me know you still care even though I have just been an emotional mess. Can men do that? Don't make me go gay just to get validation. lol No negotiations on the below statements: I do not need anyone trying to fix me and because I spend enough time fixing myself I do not have time to fix you. If you are perfect...here's a brownie. Sorry but I have been with mr. thinks he's perfect for too long. I cannot be bought. The only way to show me you care is by telling me outright. I am one of those that must hear it. If I need to buy something I buy it when I can afford it. I do not like to shop so throwing money at me will not help in disagreements or misunderstandings. You can watch sports to your hearts desire. I might even watch them with you if I can’t find anything better to do; like scrubbing toilets. I will be rooting for the underdog in my head regardless if it’s your team or not. I won’t ask you any questions either. Why? Because I don’t care to know the answer and the last time I asked a question during a cowboys game, “So…how many more innings are left?” I was given a strange look. Never again. So I had basketball on my mind…sue me. Just because my favorite tv show is “Snapped” doesn’t mean I am gathering useful information. Caution would be advised though if you treated me ugly and I offered you a gl of tea right after an episode. I swear who keeps the dang poison in their garage? I do want to knock the stupid out of some of these women. Okay I am just kidding. I have broken most of the ten commandments but that isn’t one of them.:) If you have issues with your mother stay away from me until you get them resolved.:) I’ll add more later. If you made it down this far then you are a good man. I got to talking and couldn’t shut up. Sorry about that.:) Okay Im back... About this picture thing... I would advise against using your prison photo as your profile picture.:) It scares me AND I come up with my own reasons for why you were locked up. I have a wild imagination especially if you resemble Manson. It makes me sad to see your head cut out of the photo or is hidden behind your dog. Looks are not important to me at least. If you are just showing your muscles and that's the best you have to offer then uh....no. Standing 1000 feet away from the camera only makes me feel like I need an eye exam. Be you, show you, be happy about you. Update.(just when you thought I was done.)lol I talked to a man after my own heart today...he got right to point and asked me what the heck was I doing on a dating site. "Do I have a wooden leg, gl eyeballs, etc." He said there must be something wrong. lol Nope but I loved the get to the point about him.