Are you tired of being an after thought? Are your relationships always plagued with cheaters, liars and selfish little boys that would rather spend time with there X-box than with you? Ever wonder, where is that guy that’s always in my corner when the rest of the world is against me? Are there any real good men left in the world? The answerer is yes, there are a few of us left but were in short supply and usually overlooked for the bad boys with flashy toys. We aren’t all show and no go. Our exteriors may be a little rough but what’s under the hood purrs like a kitten. Were reliable and ready for the long haul. Real love is a decision and not just a feeling. You get out of it what you put into it. There are no instant soul mates. We choose the ones we love and when we choose to love the soul of another it outshines any Imperfections that may show on the outside. Most people are too wrapped up in themselves to take the time to see the true beauty inside others. I’m no exception, I still catch myself from time to time dismissing people at first glance but as everybody knows, the first step is admitting that there’s a problem and I’m on my way to recovery… Anyway… I don’t fall into the category of typical male. I believe in making love work by working in love. In a relationship I give a hundred and ten percent. I’m a one woman man. Faithfulness is number one in my book… I have never cheated and never will. I believe in communication and I’m a good listener. I’ve noticed that a big buzz word with a lot of woman is “independent” . to me that means no need of anyone or anything, self-sufficient and complete… So why on earth would an independent woman be looking for a mate in the first place? I believe that we are all dependant in one way or another. We all need to be loved and we all need to give love. that’s the only thing that truly completes us. I’m looking for a woman can take the time to truly know me and let me be the one that knows her better than anyone else. A woman that’s not afraid of commitment and doesn’t have a wandering eye. Someone that’s not afraid to let me know her needs and not give up if I don’t get it right the first time. I’m upfront and honest and I want to find someone to spend the rest of my life with but in order to do that we have to be friends first and move slowly. I’ve done things the other way and it never turns out well… I don’t really get out much and I spend most of my time working or hanging out with my family. I’d like go out and see how the other half lives but I really wouldn’t know where to start. I know that I would be content just having someone to come home to and cook for. Maybe tuck the kids in and have some adult time. I welcome the family life and I hope that one day I’ll be able to share that with someone. I’m pretty much a hopeful romantic at heart and I refuse to believe that romance is dead. I have a great sense of humor and never take things too seriously. Not to mention I’m somewhat intelligent and can hold my own in a stimulating conversation. So, if your sick of all the games and you think you might be interested… let me know. At very least you might make a new friend.