I am a single dad of a kick 3 yr old boy.. He is my life, i have him full time.. If this will cramp your style then dont bother contacting me.. Some people say "must love dogs" i say thats dumb, i like animals but i wouldnt let it detour me from getting to know someone.. For me its this, "must tolerate and enjoy kids and what they truly are, honest and innocent" Whats wrong with that right? You would be amazed at some of the responses ive received about having a child.. I was turned off right away.. About me, im a chef, i own my own business, im a musician and a damn good drummer "although i can play a few instruments drums are my thing" I love almost all music, but metal musoic is my bag.. If you get jealous dont contact me, im truthful and direct and i dont cheat, never have never will, ill break up with someone if it isnt working to find happiness as apposed to being a cheat like alot of people are.. I like a short girl between 24 and 40 only please, dark hair is my preference, ilike nerdy girls, and ethnicity is not important, i like people for them not their race.. If you are happy and looking to share that happiness with someone, please drop me a note and say hello.. Id like to get good conversation out of this at least.. Please no religious christian preachy ****, im agnostic slighty anyway, and i do not believe in the organized religions such as christianity, if you are open minded and not ignorant you will not take offense to what i just said.. Im not saying there isnt some kind of higher power but you would be foolish to not believe in science too, as a source of your existence ... I like paranormal,aliens,space,science talk and things that require a little mental capacity.. I love tv but i hate most reality tv shows, i love movies but mostly doentaries, or comedies.. Lets chat and see if we hit it off.. Happy search to everyone!!