Do you ever wonder why we are all on these websites looking? What are we looking for? Do we even know? I only search for women, so I only see what woman are saying. You most likely only see what men are saying. Anyway, here is my story- Hello, my name is Mike. I have recently relocated from the USA to the ***. For me watching this world spin out of control has become a major pastime. I am a history buff and have studied the cycles of history. How it repeats itself. However today what humans face has never happened all at the same time before. The realities of our times are the hard truths about converging environmental, financial, political and social unraveling. All of these major problems at once. Frankly I am glad I am 80 years old. I live a very healthy lifestyle. Vegetarian diet with yoga and walking for exercise. Frankly, not being intimate with a woman for so long is a part of why I am here. But more so is my hope to meet someone I just "connect with. By that I mean, every once in a while, in our lives we meet someone that fits. The missing piece of our puzzle so to speak. Given my situation this is a way to fill the only free time I have. It would be wonderful to talk with other spousal care givers. Do you know this old song? "Que será, será" Whatever will be, will be. The future's not ours to see.