I live alone and I hate the bar scene. I get lonely sometimes and I want to settle down with someone that I can grow old with. If you have a kind heart and like to help others then lets talk. Looking for a somewhat dominate guy to come to the gym with me and help mold me into his ideal guy. I got the personality I just need the bod to go with it. Im pretty intuitive so i can tell in the first 5 minutes of a conversation if i can trust someone or not and you will know in 6 if i have made up my mind about you yet. Does that sound pretentious? I believe in complete honesty. If you got another dude on the side, or you got The Thing, whatever but tell me right off so I can tell YOU right off. I believe in manogamy (see how i spelled that?) Which means, if you decide you want to be with me then all the fringe benefits you have with your male friends need to stop. I will be good to you if you are good to me but if you lie then you will wish you never met me.