I am 40 with reddish-blond hair who loves to have fun. I have recently been on an exercise kick that borders excessive but I want to lose weight. I'm a little bit sarcastic and only serious when I have to be. I love to laugh and make others laugh. I am a pretty good cook for a bachelor but far from being a chef. The girls at work tell me I will make a good wife someday. I love to build and tweak my computer to make it better. I guess there is a little, or maybe a lot, of geek in me. I would like to meet someone nice who likes me for me. I am too old for head games and the stresses that come with a dysfunctional relationship. I love to have fun and don't want to be serious all the time. I am not looking for one-night stands as that is not my style. Sex without love is meaningless. Love without trust is impossible. Relationships without communication are doomed. I know that I am far from perfect but I do the best I can at everything. Want to know more, just ask... FYI: My pictures were taken July 4th week 2009 so they are very current.