I’d like to think that I’m fairly normal – whatever that is. I have no felony convictions (or charges for that matter), I have good personal hygiene (and expect the same) and have never filed a restraining order (or had one filed against me). I pay my own bills, change my own light bulbs, kill my own spiders (okay I have the cats do it but close enough) and generally take care of myself. I am not looking to be doted on. Compliments are nice but lose their sincerity when they come in a constant stream. I have the self-confidence to not need you to affirm my worth as a person. When a relationship is right it is a great addition to life but not a necessity. If you want to know more just ask. My goal in this whole thing is to meet in person but I like to have a little background info first. A phone call or chatting online is a nice non-threatening way to pre-screen (that’s one of the benefits of online dating right?) the other person before either of us has to sit through a horribly awkward first date.