I am a very proactive, focused and motivated individual and am totally responsible for and to my family and there is no compromise on this I am intensly proud of my celtic ancestry and my workingclass origins which has made me a very astute but caring affectionate person If I tell you what I dislike and loathe it will be easier to understand who I am and what drives me - I detest racists and people who are prejudiced whether it is religious, gender, disability or any other form of victimisation and I deeply detest people who critise young people, single mothers and people who have to stuggle on state benefits - there is no possibility of anyone not sharing these beliefs ever getting to chat or meet with me I am not looking to be a soulmate, and infact if you knew the origins of the expression soulmate you would not use it,nor do I want to be an assistant dog walker, or docile parntner,watch tv, go to bingo and I would ban soaps I am a very energetic and extremely fit individual who is not looking immediately to be someone's prince charming and live happy everafter in happy land - this is not the world I have experienced or live in I would like to meet someone who like myself would like to have a mature respectful and intimate relationship which hopefully would be on a regular basis and if it developes into a serious relationship that wants long term commitment then that would be good I work 16 maybe 20 hours 24/7 and I do work hard and I play hard and am totally focused If there is anything else you are free to ask me and I will give a drect and truthful answer