I'm a successful, well-rounded kinda guy. I work hard and take pride in doing a good job. When not working, I do what I can to stay fit and enjoy life. I'm positive and value people for who they are, and I like to be around people who feel the same way. We're all unique and I embrace uniqueness. I'm known to be loyal to my family, friends, and the things that I do. I'm also known to be very generous, reliable, deep yet playful, and stable. I enjoy spending money on other people, but don't appreciate it when they expect me to do it.I welcome the concept of being there for someone else and would hope to receive the same in return. Like Marvin Gaye said, "I want you, the right way. I want you, but I want you to want me too. Just like I want you." I feel I've evolved into "mature masculinity". If you want to know what that is, ask me.What could I tell you about myself? I am nothing special, just a guy with a set of cirstances that I manage from day to day. I say whats on my mind, but I choose my words carefully. I am proud of many things in my life and very humble about it. I know myself to be hard worker, goal orientated and very much a practical problem solver. I don't like to "talk" about doing things, I like to do them. Political and social views,I lean towards the liberal side of things, but within the context of a relationship I am definitely traditional. I believe a man should do certain things for a woman.Honesty is a characteristic I greatly admire and use as one of the golden rules,. I am a tactile learner and love to explore. Meeting new people and stimulating conversations interest me. I am a tolerant person, realizing that the view of the world and ones own beliefs are subjective as much as it is objective. I am very active at work and as a lifestyle. I am not a couch potatoes, although I do know how to relax. Being aware of both my strengths and weaknesses is important to me, I capitalize on the fore and work to improve on the latter. As far as my "situation is concerned,? Simple, stable, free. and clear sum it up. I have a good life and like you, looking to add to it. In the end none of what I just wrote really matters. Its not how I see myself, but rather how you see me. My friends and co-workers will tell you I am “carefree, charismatic, enthusiastic, forgiving, happy, hopeful, lively, optimistic, outgoing, playful, positive, sociable, spontaneous, trusting and loyal.I'm looking initially for a friendship with mutual chemistry growing into an exclusive healthy long-term relationship with a single partner with self-efficacy like me, as opposed to a partner who needs constant nurturance and reurance to feel empowered and valued as person.My Mother would have told you every grey hair on her head came from me, and that I know how to treat a woman. People I work with would tell you I have an uncanny way with my co-workers and cross the line between intellectual and practical. My friends will tell you I am a little unorthodox and funny All will tell you I am very creative., As for the dog? He would tell you I am kind, generous and a poor speller.Pursuing women is not on my bucket list; it's not my goal to date multiple women. I am looking for one single woman who will be patient and supportive rather than rush the relationship prematurely. A woman who responds to the fact that I enjoy the reurance of physical contact and emotional sharing, but who helps keep dependency in check so that we do not lose our idenies as individuals and whose character is deserving of my loyalty and affection.I'd like to spend time with someone I'd like to spend time with -- someone warm, affectionate, quirky, chatty, and with senses of humor and adventure and an interest in life. I think gles are sexy on a woman, so if you have 'em, flaunt 'em..Welcome 2my World.