Friends say I'm spontaneous, unpredictable and fun. I'm family oriented. In the summer I love cookouts (some whiffle ball and Volleyball) . A last-minute road trip without a care in the world. I'm fairly laid back but not boring and lazy. I consider myself kind, but not weak. Open minded and thoughtful. Sarcastic but sweet. My life is well balanced (75% is not work). I'm goal oriented but not obsessed. I don't require around the clock attention and don't want to be joined at the hip. I'm terrible with cars, but handy in other areas. Drama and lies is a deal-breaker. I laugh when someone trips, but am the first to lend a hand...I love Ice cream drowning in Hot Fudge and Marshmallow:eat:. I really do listen and lend you advice I would only take myself. I like live bands, Karaoke and a little dancing. In short, I want to meet someone low-maintnence with character. And of course, Someone I can trust. For a first date I prefer a fun atmoshpere with some music, but a place we can here each other talk. I don't like dates where we both feel we need to go ten places. It's not realistic to "know" someone in four hours, but get a feel if there is something there.