Hardworking, honest, trustworthy and romantic male looking for someone who appreciates those characteristics, and could return them in kind. I'm 5 foot ten; 155 Lbs; average looks, average weight, height and ..... well.... average. I've never been a player or BS artist, but I've sure been played and BS'd. I know how it feels so I'd never knowingly put someone through those emotions. The pic is not the best, sorry. But hey... I know I'm no Brad Pitt. Physical aspects of my search: Having always been a slim guy, I much prefer slender, pee women, and I've never been a " man", so don't let that bother you if you're a bit on the small side..Height 5Ft to 6Ft, and 98 to 135 Lbs (or thereabouts). No offense to anyone, but we all have our preferences. I'm looking for friends, first, because that's the way I am and always have been. Do I like sex??? Sure, and maybe more than most, because it is one of the important ways for two people who care for and about each other to share those feelings. I prefer to make love WITH someone, but if two people are close then sex for the sake of sex can be fun. But to me sex is usually more sensuous and if there is at least a basic bond between two people. I'm a very firm believer in honesty, romance, compion, listening to what the other person has to say, and also being considerate of how they feel about different things. I've always been a one woman man, and I'd like someone with the same thoughts on the matter; who can trust and also be trusted. My grandparents instilled in me the insight as what love can be and should be. Music has also played a large part in the person I am, and also my feelings and thoughts on love and romance. I've seen what love is NOT by the way most guys are, and also seeing the way my 1st stepfather treated my mother. I vowed to myself long ago that my major goal was to show someone that all guys are not alike, and to make a positive difference in someones life. I'm looking for someone who has similar beliefs; someone who has and likes a good sense of humor; someone who is looking for a serious, long term relationship. Someone who is adventurous, who doesn't mind walking hand-in-hand sometimes, and doesn't mind trying new activities and food. I get a workout at work most days, but I do my "butt crunches" and sit-ups to look OK for a significant other. I'd like someone who is playful, daring and who just possibly might like skinny dipping. :^) Anything else I like, or you'd like to ask, I'd rather discuss in a chat or email; OK? I'm in the process of quitting smoking, just so 'ya know if it matters to you. More soon; better yet, email me and ask away!