This profile keeps changing as I meet new people and experience new things. I’m working on my Ph. D in psychology, previous college was in the IT field, that’s computers incase you didn’t know. I am studying to be a couples therapist, so yes sex therapy is a major topic of interest for me. I mention this because the topic of sex is not a taboo in my opinion so I tend to be very open about it. I know it’s a little late in life to change carriers but life itself is all about the search for true happiness so what can you do. I work as a bouncer while in school, and yes I prefer the le Tigger. I’m a big fan of Tigger first of all and it sound better than “I throw people out of clubs” or the “I beat people up.” Physical attributes are important, I would love to say they are not but it’s just the way we “men” are designed. With that said, I believe every woman is beautiful in some way, but this doesn’t mean I want them in my bedroom. I won’t put what type of looks I find attractive because I have met women who are thin and some who are full figured who I found very attractive, however taller than me is definitely not for me cause I can’t climb, sorry. Still with me? Glad to see you stuck around for the duration, here comes more stuff about me. I love Disney so if we make it to a few dates it might be wise for you to enjoy going there. Tigger is my personal hero, I think you should always try to find some fun in every aspect of your daily life. I am really big on the ocean, I scuba dive and kayak regularly but enjoy just about any activity involving water .I’m very extroverted, but I do have shy moments from time to time. I have nice cloths, however I am most comfortable in jeans and a t-shirt so if you’re into black tie events on a several times a week basis I’m probably not the best pick for you. I love to cuddle and am very touchy when I get to know someone. I enjoy going to the gym and having an active lifestyle. I love to travel, but who doesn’t. Like wine? Not so much, well, I like Boons Farm but I have been told that’s not wine, it’s Kool aid with alcohol in it. Go figure, if it doesn’t taste icky it can’t be called wine by some people. I think the idea of marriage is wonderful and like everyone else I would love to meet someone I can envision completing me. Yeah, I know they say you shouldn’t say “completes you” but well, that’s how it feels when it’s real, I think the people who complain about this term have yet to experience the feeling is all. I do want more children, so if this is not a possibility you see in your future, again I am probably not the best pick. I think I’m a good father, and a good partner. I am a strong believer, and pracioner of chivalry and romance. A kiss is of great importance to me, I think a kiss is the most intimate and experience you can share with another person. Music is very important to me, and I like just about every type there is. Each offers its own unique set of emotional feelings. Orchestra is great live, rock bands tend to not impress me to much live. I am not an internet dater, so if after a few messages you’re not ready to move to the next level might want to look elsewhere. I don’t use drugs and very rarely drink. I have a sense of humor that , well, I find funny but not everyone else always gets. As for the basic stuff, I am very loyal, and sometimes a bit to honest for my own good. I am compionate and not afraid to show emotion. I’m dependable, and always there for the person I am with. Yes, I will be on your side even if we both know you’re in the wrong, but I will let you know in private. I enjoy acting like a fool from time to time, and try not to judge people to harshly. I think that is a good list of the basics, I do expect the same in return. As for religion, and know that I add this because it has come up. I have a great relationship with G_d, and I know he likes me, however I do not belong to nor do I intend on becoming a member of any organized religion. I have never nor will I ever need another person to speak to G_d on my behalf, so if you are seeking to build your church through a dating site maybe G_d doesn’t really approve of you speaking for him in the first place. Also I think I should mention I am not a chaser, so if I write you and you don’t reply I will ume I’m not what you’re looking for. I’m putting this in because I am not well versed on online dating etiquette and I have had it explained to me that women expect you to write them again even though they did not respond the first time. If you write me and I do not reply it also means that I am not interested. Still here? WOW, maybe you should write me a message now.