Before i go any farther i want to say i have a pic posted and if you don't please be able to send one..thank you sooooo much..because we are on a dating site and it is the only thing we have to see..i know itis in the heart that counts in the long run..but it is a physical attraction that starts it on a good note..not being shallow here but a pic is a must.i am divorced and have a wonderfull 13 yr old son i see everyother weekend..but my socila life has become barren and i am here to find someone to hopefully in time settle back into a long term relationship..but without sounding shallow and sterotype..whew..i would like to start off as friends with benifits and go from there..i hope to find someone that has as high as sex drive as i still have and still as young at heart..i like going out to dinner and movies..and comfortable at home having a candle light dinner and snuggling on the couch enjoying long slow kissing and getting to intimately knowing each other..i don't trash around and don't want someone that dose..i am clean..desease free and plan on staying that way thank you..laugh