I'm generally a happy, optimistic man and always confident. I write articles for various magazines. When at home, I swim, play golf and cook, although not at the same time. I can't dance because I've got two left feet, which makes buying shoes a bit tricky. It also means that I trip not only the light fantastic but also everything else on the dance floor. I'm fascinated by kookaburras and when people say I'm obsessed, I just throw my head back and laugh. Post graduate qualifications. They are the prosaic details. These are the personal... Although attached, I live in a vacuum. It's been that way for a long time and I miss the close moments... the moments of connection that make us human. I would very much like to find a lady who is articulate, intelligent, sincere and diamond-in-the-sun bright. A lady who is ured and sensual without being overtly so. A lady whose words and ways are like a smother of lace or a tissue touch. An arm wrestler might also be interesting. She will inhabit that small space between the inhalation of a breath and the exhalation of a sigh. Either that or just down the road from me. I would like to meet an independent, ured lady who needs more from life than life is giving at the moment. A lady who knows the power of touch and the excitement of expectation. A sense of humour is essential. And teeth.