Words ok, so there is a plethora of information about me. I'm a pretty active individual, though it may not show. Yes, I get heavier and lighter during season changes, so don't be surprised. I would like to be more active with exercise, however I am a single, full time mom, full time student, part time employee, and full time friend. That being said, I'm not extremely worried about my appearance. I'm a fairly laid back, come-as-you-are kinda girl. My profile may indicate that I'm a complete "nerd", but I truely do enjoy having fun! Although I would rather go to a museum, play, concert, or somewhere beautiful for a date does not mean I will never go to the bar or dance club. It just means that's not where I would prefer to meet my life mate, nor hang out every night. I crave intellectual stimulation as much as physical. I haven't figured out exactly what I'm looking for (or obviously I wouldn't be on a dating site), but I do know what I don't want. Gotta start somewhere, right? I'm very interested in my career choice (mage therapy) because I love to help people. I've been in a tramatic car accident, and one of the best treatments I recieved was mage, so I'm very convinced of its miracles. That being said, I have to keep my personal life seperate from my career life, so if you're only talking to me because you're interested in a free mage, please don't waste my time. I'm here to figure out what I want, and to hopefully meet someone who is just as interested in me as I may be in them. I enjoy a guy who is somewhat chivalrous, but who isn't afraid to test the boundaries, and who is not shy. I don't like to play mind games, but I don't chase. Either you're interested, or you're driving me bonkers making me wonder if you are having a good time. My mind works at a pretty fast rate, and I don't slow down for much, so I really don't have time trying to figure out motives or interest. Again, never expect more than you're willing to give. Thanks for the view!