Ok I sometimes have a hard time talking about myself. So I will give this a shot. I love music...which is a big thing for me the guy and I have to agree on at least a cd full. I always have the radio on or something similar I am very open about myself. I have a bad habit of speaking my mind. I am intelligent and I know it. I also have a very sarcastic wit, so if you cant take the heat get the hell outta the kitchen I like to argue. I love to learn new things. I am open to almost anything from friendships to a full blown relationships...I've had my heartbroken one too many times but well when you fall of the horse just jump back on. I am very talkative...and can keep a convo going for any length of time...but I know when to keep my mouth shut and end it. I take my responsibilites seriously. I have a neice and a nephew who I love more than anything else. So what I want in a guy is simply this: Looks dont really matter. Intelligence does. If you are going to talk to me please do not start off by trying to get into my pants that is the surest way for you not to. I am a writer so seduce me with words...but behind the words there should be meaning. Dont say something you dont mean. Just be yourself. Make me laugh, smile, giggle, intrigue me with your wit and dazzle me with your ideas.