Ok first of all, I am NOT like most guys. So DON'T stereotype me. I don't do it , so don't do it to me. I have read profiles on here. Why is that most people have such high standards or are so picky? I can understand past bad experiences. But for the love of Mike, don't cause someone else to suffer. We all at one time have. If you want a good, solid relationship then drop the past. Don't make that person suffer for the "x mistake". I have been single myself for some time. And I have been fearful of trying to date again. But, in retrospect, nothing gained, nothing lossed. If you want to have a long term realtionship, then here it is, right here. Yes, I have made bad choices. Haven't you?????? I know that I would love to have a good, solid relationship. With trust and honesty. Would you?