Hello, I’ve decided to just “put it out there” because no matter which way I look at it, honesty still feels like the only way to go. Please understand that I mean no offence to anyone, I’m just too old to waste any more time on the ridiculous. I do not have any fancy features on this site, so if you respond in a way that requires a special feature, it will never get to me and I will never know you tried. If you’re looking for a one night stand or even a permanent sex kitten, please move one. If you’re arrogant, self-centered and think you’re the best thing that has ever happened to this planet, please move on. If you look in the mirror and see George Clooney, please move on. If you’re looking for a cook, housemaid and nurse, please move on. If you’re still a child searching for a Mother, please move on. If you can inhale a meal in less than 30 minutes, please move on. If you’re looking for a cute, petite little trophy to show off to your shallow friends, please move on. If you’ve decided that I sound like a fun challenge and you’re going to change my attitude, trust me, you want to move on. If you smoke and/or drink more than you think I would like, please move on. If you do ANY kind of drugs, please move on. If you are married, living with someone or are in any form of committed relationship, MOVE ON WITH SPEED. I believe I have covered everything very clearly above so, if you’re still reading, you’re either just “Curious” or you have nothing better to do. Either is fine as long as you remember what you read. Now then, a few more if’s but these if’s are few and positive. IF YOU ARE an honest, decent, caring person with admirable communication skills and a good sense of humour, PLEASE KEEP READING. IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR an honest, decent, caring person with admirable communication skills and a good sense of humour, PLEASE KEEP READING. IF YOU CAN look in the mirror and see the beautiful person you are inside, then you have to be beautiful outside too. IF YOU ARE able to see the inner beauty in others, then you will see beyond a few wrinkles, beyond a little more weight than necessary and, perhaps neither you, nor those you surround yourself with, are shallow. I am looking for someone special to spend time with now and then. To have dinner with, take peaceful walks with, enjoy quiet conversations with. At this stage in life, that’s all I’m looking for. Someone to trust and feel safe and comfortable with. Whether you’re working or retired, doesn’t matter. What matters is wanting a true friend to just enjoy some leisure time with. If this is what you’re looking for, and nothing else, please write. I have 3 very adult sons, a 4 year old granddaughter and a 2 year old grandson. This may or may not matter but I'm highly allergic to cats. I will be more than happy to answer any questions you may have, but I think your eyes need a rest at this point. I didn't realize this would be quite so long. Please message me if you feel we may be on the same page. Have a happy day.