My name is James Dowling I'm from Queens New York,I'm a widower and also i have a son who means the whole world to me. I have been single for a while now because i have to be there for my son now he is 10 and he saying i should go get a girlfriend lol, right now I'm really ready to start a new relationship that is gonna last a life time.. I'm not into mind or head games so if you looking for someone to mess around with or someone to play head/mind games with i think you should look for someone else. I'm looking for that one woman that understands what genuine love is. i love to lay on on the sofa and watch movies,also i love site seeing,climbing mountains lol also cant wait to meet that lady of my dreams so i can cook some special delicacies.. if you think you that woman and you want us to get talking feel free to send me a message.