i think i come into a relationship from a different perspective than most women. i am a widow and my marriage was good.i have some baggage,who doesnt,but i put mine in a locker,i do not carry it.im a good cook, in more ways than one.hee hee.i know a relationship has to stay fresh and its up to both parties to see that it does. nobody would get bored with me around. im active and fun and adventurous. i dont like camoping and hate snow.not much for roughing it.but i can do jeans as well as dress up and i look damn good when i go dancing.i have a great sense of humor,im reasonably intelligent.i can take care of myself.i do not mind being alone,but i would like someone to share my life. i like public displays of affection. but i am a bit old fashioned when it comes to intimacy.i need to know someone first.have that chemistry that says "ohm my goodness i really like and want him". doesnt happen to me often ,but when it does ............ anyway good luck to all and i hope you find what you are searching for.