Well, I definitely require somebody with some intelligence - or at least some tact. That being said... I'm into being outside. I love beaches, parks, trains, or even just people watching. I'm a geek at heart, but I am the furthest thing from that on the outside. I love to talk, but not about the day, the weather, the 'whats' in life - I thrive on the 'why's' and 'how's'. I can talk for HOURS, but I expect it to not be one-sided. I suppose I'm really just looking for somebody I can feel comfortable with. I'm pretty gregarious as it is, but I'm not one of those guys that is immediately looking for sex. I recently ended from a BAD relationship and just want to meet somebody new that I feel comfortable with and take it slow. I am entirely sober, but don't expect the same. Just no drugs... I hope to hear from somebody promising :D