I live in Helena not Glendive. The system will not let me change my city. I only have one rule - if you're married or in a committed relationship and are looking here I respect your lifestyle however It's not for me and there are others better suited to you than I. For the long-term: One man who's image will be on my phone, not in the post office. I favor nerds, geeks, and genius, but also enjoy the company of a good gruff man with a hidden tender heart. I'm open to most people and have few prerequisites - no heavy drinkers, no long rap sheets or recent criminal activity, and must be employed, retired or otherwise self-sufficient. Beyond that, this world is harsh and dating should be fun, put smiles on our faces, and give us an opportunity to laugh at the world around us. Basically, I just want to find a nice man with a hand to hold and big strong arms to get wrapped up in after a busy week of work and one who wants a dependable, happy, passionate woman with soft curves. I am a bbw, if that isn't what you're looking for, it's all good ...but you never know....I might surprise you and maybe we would be a great into retirement! In 2050 We'll Share a Room and Play Pranks on the CNAs in "THE HOME" Meanwhile, I want to spend the next 40 years making memories to talk about then. I've raised my family, I have a serious job, and want warmth and adventure at home now. I'm a terrible cook, housekeeper, and not very domestic at all...but I am spontaneous, artistic, and responsible. My work is very public and it's a blessing to be where I am, but I would really like to share the blessings with someone else. I am a churchgoer but not fanatical and hope to find someone with similar values. I place high values on volunteering together. Mostly though I'm looking for a heart connection. When I'm not working, I spend time by the river with my fiddle, a drawing pad, and a pencil. Somedays I like going out dancing, and I'm always game for being outrageous. However, I do not smoke, do not like being with anyone who drinks more than two beers a week. NO ILLEGAL DRUG USERS INCLUDING MMJ!! I love to debate (in the formal , organized sense, not the argumentative one), play volleyball, fly kites, and would like to find someone with whom to develop new mutual interests. Bonus if you are mensa - but not a requirement! I am happy and content in my own life and looking for someone who is also happy and content in theirs. When our paths meet I am looking for a magnetism between us that is irresistible. I have been a player in my past and if that's what you are looking for, please look at other women's profiles so we don't waste each other's time and I can focus on finding my last playmate. I am a bit old fashioned when it comes to relationships...I rarely message men first...I hope YOU do