I think i'm falling into this cant find anyone but a loser catergory. I just want to relax have a good time, and see where life will take me. You never know, what you'll find? I work crazy hrs. and would like to find a freind(s) to hang with. i'm 40 but not over the hill, I believe you only get wiser and better with age. It's too bad more people don't get that. I'm pretty much old fashioned in a way, I believe that if you treat others with respect and cherish the time spent together, the same should be returned. I dont party a whole lot. I like just kickin it and goin with the flow of things.