I am a true romantic at heart. I believe in alot of Old fashionds values even though i am an Independant single lady. And a Real Girly Girl! That does not mean I am high maintiance, expensive (i don't drink liquor or beer so am a cheap date), or that money brings me happiness. But i can also get into a pair of jeans and a t shirt and roll around on the ground or play in the mud. I can also lay around all day long in my jammies, or a pair of sweats. I just like to look like i feel. Feminine and girly, all put together when with my man out out. Life is all about Moments, making them and cherishing them. One of my fav quotes i live by is "yesterday is over, today is all i have and tomorrow isn't promised..So! Life is one big game of chance....And PLAYERS are not allowed! If you want to play fair and honest then let the game of life begin. Oh, and one last thing! I don't have sex on the first, the second, the third or the forth dates. I allow that to happen if and only when i feel safe with the man that i am. Sorry if that bothers some of you guys, and I know i could have what i want when i want, but i respect myself more then that, and want the man that i am with to respect me the same. I won't judge you if you like one night stands, so please don't judge me if am better then that. Life is a journey full of ups and downs and crap along the way, i still believe in the happy ever after and the fairy tale ending. No one will ever change my mind on that. To love unconditional, without limits and boundries with total 100% communication is my key to that happy ever after. (and yes when get to that point Sexual desire is right up there as well, but only when get to the above first). I don't judge people for what they believe or what they look like, its about whats in their heart that counts. We all make mistakes and learn and grow from them, so judging someone for something that they may have did but learned and grew from isn't fair. We are suppose to learn from mistakes or poor judgements on our parts. Thats why God tests us. We all have things we wish we could do over, but in this lifetime there are no do over's. We only get the chance to make it right, and fight for what we believe in and feel if it indeed is true and worth it. Can't should not be a word that any of us can use! It's a cop out. If i can't find a man then i am not a total women! WTH! If i can find a man i still am a total woman just with much more to give and receive. And I can go on an online dating site and see what happens, and it's ok....I am not pathetic! And either are you! May an angel always rest on your should, each and every day of your life! Hugs...