Touch a woman's mind, you get her interest. Touch her heart, you get her love. Touch her soul, you get pion beyond your wildest dreams once you've touched all three, you have found your soulmate. Well, I am not sure yet what I am looking for. My children are all grown and live in another state. I really like the simple things in life and do not require much in the way of entertainment. I do like boxing. I know that sounds strange. When I was younger I owned and raised and rode quarter horses, However, I don't think that is who I am now. Respect ,honesty and dependability are the 3 things that are important to me, I love to cook and people always come back for seconds. The picture in my profile was taken 5/11/09 and the last of me sitting on the stool was taken 2/14/12 and the multiple one with the hearts was taken 4/30/12. I am a good listener and enjoy a good conversation. I have been told that some men find me attractive and that I look younger than I am. I try to workout at least 4 time a week just to keep everything moving with ease. I am originally from NYS and have lived in Oklahoma since 911. I spend a lot of free time doing projects on my house as it is a never ending thing. If you are looking for a women with fire then look elsewhere as I am more of a warm glow kind of a women, I prefer a man that does not drink. I may not know what I want but, I know what I do not want. No married men. No players. No one that is looking for monatary gain at my expense. I am a left wing, liberal, Birkenstock wearing femenazi NY democrat. Can you handle it?? My favorite saying is: Carpe diem The man that reaches out to me must be able to respect each others DIFFERENCES.