Bet you weren't expecting this.......but here is an abbreviated list of the things I do not want in a boyfriend/companion/lover. Just to be clear, not to be a *****. This is very out of character for me to start on a pessimestic note, but I will be optomistic later...promise. But honestly, who wants to waste their time? Please review the following, and if any apply to you, best of luck with your search, I am not the girl for you. --Married (I understand 'divorce limbo', I was there myself waiting over a year for him to sign) --Unemployed (also understand what 'between jobs' can simply mean that, but this is addressing more the unemployable --Homeless (I am not looking for a roomate, and it would be preferable if you weren't a grown man living with your folks) --Alcoholics, or other addicts (although I wish you luck with your recovery, I am not willing to help you through your steps) --Only for sex hookups (sorry, but I just want a little more out of a relationship) Ok, so here are some things I am hoping to find... laid-back, secure in themselves, sense of humor, finds pleasure in simple things as well as the extravagant things, likes music and attending concerts and live venues from the mellow kinds to shows that allow you to 'bang your head' if need be, likes an occasional dose of culture, enjoys new foods and experiences, dog-lover, kind, pionate...... So, if I haven't completely turned you off, I would enjoy very much hearing from you.