I’m looking for "the one", a long term relationship, the last one. Of course this starts with friendship (dating, whatever) first. Best friends. Friendship on fire.. I find intelligence incredibly sexy. And kindness. And wit...swoon It’s not the places and the things that you do, it’s the person that you do them with. I'm really looking for that one man to grow old with, making memories for the rest of our lives.. I root for the underdog, stand up for what I believe in, and go the distance for my family and friends. I love holding hands and being affectionate. PDA even. I’m strong and independent but I appreciate the differences in men and women and love being treated like a lady. I have a goofy side and can be the life of the party or I can curl up with a good book all weekend. I really like people, but try to avoid the mean ones. I am fluent in sarcasm. I can find humor in most situations and am usually smiling. I may be a tad irreverent.. I love all kinds of music and hitting the dance floor. Well, not that screaming kind of music… I’m from Tennessee and my mother was basically a hillbilly, which isn’t a bad thing. She was smart and funny, appreciated nature and could stretch a dollar into next week. I hope I’m a little bit like her. Every morning is another day in Paradise and I enjoy being outdoors (hat and spf mandatory for this low melanin redhead ;-) ... I may really be the "fairest of them all" ;-) I love finding a new spot to be awed by the majesty of nature. I really enjoy hitting the open road and seeing where it takes us, going off the beaten path and taking the non tourist route. I also need the do nothing weekends too… No one is perfect, just looking for the one who is perfect for me. I'm not a paid member, so I can't see the "meet me" or "match". Message me to get my attention. Smoking is a deal breaker. Ah, and I’m not a trump supporter. Sigh..