I am a black man, a son, a brother, a father, a friend, a writer. I am attracted to intelligence and someone who likes "thought" humor. I have a built like a football player, I've always been a athlete and have been able to excel at sports and physical things. I enjoy writing, I didn't start that way but found it to be relaxing and a release at times. It's highly enjoyable to keep someones attention through the words that I choose. I don't have a lot of friends but that's a word that I use sparingly, I know plenty of cats (yeah some of my pop's old 70's slang at work) and I don't dislike many people but I wouldn't call them friends or ociates they are just people that I know. My friends are as close to family as they can get without having the same blood running through our veins. My friends and I have worked on our relationships to make it that far and it's something to be cherished. I am ex-Army, I still have some of that training, I pay attention to detail. I think some of that comes from being an introvert as well, so it just helps me focus more when I think. I'm a writer, computer nerd, and a mage therapist