Hello,I'm Ayeshah From the east coast, been in NM for a long time now. I'm Black and Puerto Rican. single mommy of girls.I WANT A RELATIONSHIP BUT I AM IN NO WAY TRYING to have countless lovers or multiple partners,I'm looking for something that A LOT OF people these days, don't or can't comprehend...I want to grow old with the man I someday fall in love with,I want the stuff I saw my grand-parents have.I to am a bit"old Fashioned" but with some modern flare... Call me a Dreamer,but I'm grounded and realistic I believe ,. A relationship takes work and the things you did to get your partner SHOULD be the same things you do to keep her/him Be creative and adventurous , role play and making your love life and commitment to each other POP! I like to dance and laugh and be silly(stupid funny) I have a very out going personality,I love spending my time with family and friends so I travel as often as I can around the USA, I like dancing& once in a while I'll go to the club, But more times than not I'm home with my kids. if I'm not at work or in cl I also like to bow l,play pool,watch a theatrical show, opera and plays, I love poetry. I write short stories and poetry. I like painting, wine tasting & cooking out..I cook Soul food & Puerto Rican food but International food's my pion. I'm willing to try anything once,If I like it I'm going to do it again(maybe lol) and if I don't I wont try it again. Nothing I do is mediocre, I give my all & do my best in everything...Specially when it comes to being faithful devoted,understanding caring loving and a plethora of other things, I'm a handful yet I'm humble and have a very big heart. I know what I want and I make no excuses or apologies for who I am, how I am , what I am or how I live my life which is Drama FREE. My favorite color is purple, I'm told it's a color of strength & I am a strong courageous woman. I'm also a Leo & a lot of what's said about us Leos for me is true. I'm proud of myself & I respect myself plus others.I'm aware of who I am as a person.I neither seek definition from the man I'm with, nor do I expect him to read my mind.I'm quite capable of articulating my needs.I'm hopeful.I'm strong enough to make all my dreams come true.I know love,therefore I give love.I recognize that my love has great value&must be reciprocated.If my love is taken for granted it soon disappears & SO will I. I have an excessive amount of inspiration,a endless supply of endurance.I HAVE LEARNED FROM MY PAST which has helped shape me and make me stronger & better to withstand and know my present and move toward my future.I know that with God the world is my "playground" but without God I will just be played with.I do not live in fear of the future, because of my past. Instead, I understand that my life experiences are merely lessons,meant to bring me closer to self-knowledge & unconditional self-love plus unconditional love for the man I settle don with.I'm romantic, athletic, and intelligent.I love to laugh and enjoy life everyday.I believe the higher the intelligence the more need there is for play (not all the time).I'm a people person yet enjoy intimate moments that allows a person to share and exchange ideas. I'm down to Earth I'm a person who knows who knows herself and what I wants. I'm just your everyday intellectual bookworm, music loving, poetry writing,bit of a adrenaline junkie… with a hard edge and a soft side.I do not have a problem expressing my heart..whether it's verbal or physical. I must say I try not to judge anyone one but if i must judge then I do my best to judge a man by his CHARACTER - Not by how much money he makes, the car he drives, or other superficial/ material things.I also accept a man just as he is,choosing to get closer only to a man that command their admiration and respect. IF YOUR LOOKING TO DATE ME OR TRYING TO MARRY ME FOR A green card,visa OR USA citizenship I WILL not do it! If YOUR LEGAL OR ARE CLOSE TO BECOMING LEGAL AND HAVE A WORKING visa,GREEN CARD etc WE CAN BE FRIENDS AND UNTIL YOU HAVE your CITIZENSHIP, PLEASE DON'T LOOK TO ME OR FOR ME TO GET IT FOR YOU!