I'm not sure it matters what is written here since I don't think anyone reads. Actually, there's nothing like talking and getting to know the person. I do enjoy being romantic, holding hands, dinners out or just cooking a simple but tantalizing meal at home. Golf, biking, walking and roller blading top the list. Oh yes movies, popcorn and chocolate leap to the front of the line. If there is any interest we can start by email, or chat although personally I like the phone to hear the inflection and the mood of your voice. Call me old fashioned. I do believe in opening doors, respect, loyalty, honesty and openness. All that said what you see is what you get, but I think the package is pretty good. Only one way to find out; or, is what you say you want.....just an illusion? Oh I forgot, did I mention I was looking for normal? Smarts, conversation and simple are up there too.